!! TW ON SOME TEA: LIGHT MENTIONS OF GROOMING AND PEDOPHILIA on the third expose-tea !!

kay, first off, i have a girlfriend !! well, i've had one for like.. the whole time this account was up bugt i didn't think it was relevant y'all. (i just bought her a 50 dollar digi cam ;PP)

if that wasn't shocking enuf,  i am in a friend group of three ppl. i just found out that both of them like each other n are actively ignoring the other one. I KEEP GETTING IN THE MIDDLE BC WHAT .. WE WERE OKAY NOT EVEN A WEEK AGO. ifl it's because girl #1 knows that a friend of ours slipped up and told girl #2 ab her feelings for her and wants to avoid it. honestly? i would too lololollll  it's embarrassing as hell finding out that ur bsf likes you xpp and its even more embarrassing having your business aireddddd !!

and my online "acquaintances" have been breaking up w their partners left and right LOLLLL serves them right, they problematic ppl. which brings me to more tea:

1. ONE OF THEM ACQUAINTANCES was FAKE AS FUCKKK !! that ho got problems w everyone, even when they aint even do nun .. a friend of mine (let's call her qua) was friends w this ho (let's call her liu) and was in liu's friend group for a while. qua had a friend (ja) who was also friends with liu. now, liu and her friends are pretty popular, and so is qua and ja. all of a sudden, liu and her friends started being shady to qua. their reason was that "qua said something problematic a while back and they didn't wanna be friends w qua anymore." when asked about the specifics, like what qua said, they wouldn't remember. i wouldn't even question if she was actually cruel bc she literally trash-talks her so-called "best friends" when they aren't okay or when they do something that she wouldn't like when she has absolutely no business w it whatsoever (like if one of her friends gets back tgt w their ex). she's also apolitical in THIS ECONOMY LOLLLLL 

so, here i am, the scorned woman, angry for her friend:

2. now that liu's issues and problematic behaviors are out of the way, let's talk about liu's friends, the bitches she trash-talks. one of them is ry. SHE'S PERFORMATIVE AS FUCKKK. they keep saying she's very loud and opinionated but she's hella quiet when it comes to ACTUAL SOCIETAL AND GOVERNMENTAL ISSUES. LIKE ACTUALLY FUCKING QUIET. try to ask her about any of those and she avoids it LIKE THE PLAGUE. but claim that she's "for the people"? sure, you may be for the people when it comes to cheating issues but for issues like our president being a huge bitch and endangering literally everyone's lives and healthcare? you keep your mouth shut. then claim she's understanding, but bsffr. what the hell are you "understanding"? your problematic friends? you're all exactly the same ;DD

3. now, we have belt. belt's fucking HORRIBLE. this shit is a PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH HER. i would like to think that i am an opinionated and outspoken person, especially since i did take humanities AND social sciences. i like to dabble in psychology and the likes because of past experiences. now, belt is what i  would consider MORE OUTSPOKEN than ry. aside from cheating issues, she speaks about grooming and other stuff (still nothing ab their country tho lolll). except when she speaks, that bitch BLAMES AND MOCKS VICTIMS XDD she posted about a 21 year old dating a 17 year old. i wouldn't have a problem with her calling the 21 year old out, except she WAS ALSO CUSSING THE 17 YEAR OLD OUT WHEN THE VICTIM GOT DEFENSIVE LOLLLLL speaking from experience, victims are BRAINWASHED to think that their partners are their saviors so the 17 year old's reactions was warranted. she thought her "partner" (god bless her heart) was being attacked (she was being attacked for good reason btw). when i called her out on it, there were no apologies to the victims and she just straight-up deleted her post. when i asked her about it on her anonymous messaging app:

“I don’t concern myself with discussions about the use of cuss words, as I see them as a minor issue that should not dictate how you express yourself. However, when people call you out for more significant matters—instances where genuine harm has been done—you consistently fail to acknowledge them. There are no apologies to the victims, no consideration for those who were affected, nothing at all. Instead, you simply delete any mention of the issue as if it never happened and move on. That is the kind of criticism you refuse to take, and that is when it becomes problematic." 

she started throwing a fuss, saying "i don't want to talk about this anymore. you guys keep wanting me to change" refering to the original message talking about how a different anonymous person told her to stop cussing, and she responded to that message rudely with "they're for my friends. don't dictate.." whatever. then, someone else replied to belt with "but you don't take accountability, actually." and she said that she does, so i responded with the text above. then, a while later, she responds to another message saying that the original anon sent the message out of concern and respect or whatever. i got pissed off because WHY WON'T THEY ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR PROBLEMATIC BEHAVIOR? so i sent one more message:

"You chose not to acknowledge my message about serious concerns, yet you responded to a separate discussion about respect in the first NGL message—even after saying you wouldn’t acknowledge any more messages about it. My message wasn’t even about how respectful it was or about your cussing. It’s telling that you avoid addressing the more significant issues but engage in conversations that don’t challenge you. If accountability is something you claim to uphold, it should extend beyond selective responses."

and up until now, that bitch remains QUIETTTT LOLLLL !!

4. i am a diagnosed pwBPD (wow it's shameful putting that in public) and i reposted something when i was having an episode. i was hella PISSED OFF. then, my friend reposted the SAME POST. with the blaring "i have bpd" IN THE VIDEO. i was shocked because afaik, she isn't a pwBPD. i got upset because you can't just share hella stigmatizing shit that YOU YOURSELF WOULDN'T REGRET. so i pointed it out and she said "oh i don't have bpd but i do love hard." WHAT?? WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?? 

THAT'S ALL, BUH-BYE !!