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please be careful, im not trying to be a creep. im 15. earlier this morning i found someone whos 13 in my friends list and we had some sort of convo where i said there are pedos in here and then i said ".. be careful my dear". she said the "my dear" was creepy. 

i got scared like sh** because it was never meant to be creepy :( . ive apologized to her already and i hope shes just safe. i had no intention on being a creep. i just wanted to warn them, thats all. thank god ive apologized and she accepted it. 

i rather not drop their username here because that person is innocent. i think i was wrong. 
what do u guys think? am i in the wrong at that time or shes wrong? 


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loaffym.p3

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I would like to call everyone dear not because I'm a creep it's just dear sounds like a kind and soft way to call someone, there's nothing wrong with calling someone dear unless you're saying that with bad intentions or disrespecting their boundaries ofc!(⁠●⁠´⁠⌓⁠`⁠●⁠)


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YES. i called it in a soft way not trying to be a creep :(

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✮chloe✮

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Im 13 and i wouldnt find it weird at all. I think it definitely depends on the person because we all have different boundaries. Don’t beat yourself up about it if you didn’t have bad intentions:)


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i dont have bad intentions :( im a femboy and i love calling people "dear" in a soft way

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Buter-Broad

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I don’t think its anyones fault, just a lil misunderstanding and thats ok, its not creepy to me either, don’t overthink it


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