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You have a human right to not like someone physically. No, you don't have to date anyone who's nice to you. No, you don't owe anyone anything. Yes, you're allowed to think "I can't date them because they're ugly", because here's the thing; if they'd be for you, your mind would make you think otherwise.
Not everyone who's polite to you and likes you has to be your partner. It's not your fault.
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livh_
THIS. I've had some "friends* laugh at me being single because my standards are high and one insinuate I'm too ugly to pull someone attractive/my type
Isa (˶′◡‵˶）
thank you omg
kiko!
Almost realized this too late
parks 🦇
glad to here this actually :)) sometimes I can use a reminder like this because I feel like "well they were being nice and such" but in reality I only really see them as a friend or even a stranger. Always feel the need to overexplain why I don't like someone when it's perfectly OK for me to now like that. Thanks for a reminder!! :)
sooss
I've also just realized this for myself! You don't owe anyone anything just because they are talking or even spending money on you. You are not entitled to validate their feelings or actions. I think especially as a female I feel obliged to give things back to a guy when he is repeatedly being nice to me because I don't want to offend him, however it should NEVERR be like that!
epicface
Even with friends (not that I have any) there a guy in school he's such a shiity person and for some reason he likes me and wants to be friends but i don't wanna be his friend and he's always chasing me and stuff I hate him so much + he's a creep. I only have friends on space hey and my cousin she's cool
jali :)
say it louder for those in the back!!!