Internet media brainwashes us into weird kinks, and that's not okay.

Being kinky itself never will be a bad thing; humans are naturally curious and things like bdsm, performing an act outside (right now, the only okay way to do that is in an area when no one else can see it, of course, we aren't animals), or even orgies were present in the human life ever since humans learned what copulation was.

*no I am not speaking from experience, I'm just a psych student and I know

But here's the thing;

before Internet era, people were just open about it; endless explicit songs about touching your partner were present. Because of that openness, humans didn't have the need to drift off into any degenerate teritorries.

Around 2000s, something changed, and slowly but surely we started to put the act itself into methaphors. In 2019, having sex starts to become taboo. Everything in the public media is now made for children; "don't say that on tiktok, kids are there!", okay sure, but then "don't say that on youtube, kids are there!", and then "why would you blog post about that? that's sooo soo nasty!", all while posting your bum in a thong swimming suit is fully acceptable.

Ever since 2020, media figured just how much they can make us insane; "the world is ending tomorrow!", "Europe explodes tomorrow!", etc. And their kink pushing went all in.

P0rn ads on youtube? Awesome, do that! Everyone calls their partner daddy at least once a week no? R34? Yeaaa like, everyone goes on r34 no? check out the new samsung girl on r34! Uh? What everyone has a piss kink no? It's totally normal! Vore? Ohhhh come oooon who hasn't watched vore at least once! Guro? Well y'know, it's like sooo cutecore coded to like guro like xd what you don't like it? Goooooooshhh you're so sensitive!

"Kink shaming in the big 25? 🥀" YES. UNTIL IT'S OKAY TO TALK ABOUT PERIODS, PROSTATE PROBLEMS AND ASS HAIR, SHARING YOUR WILDEST KINKS UNPROMPTED IS A THING TO BE A PROBLEM. THE INTERNET ISN'T A SUPPORT GROUP, AND INSTAGRAM IS NOT A PLACE TO SHARE THINGS LIKE THAT!

MOST OF PEOPLE WITH WEIRD KINKS ARE AFRAID TO SPEAK UP, AND I CAN TOTALLY SEE WHY! These people think "hey, something's wrong", but then when they try to get help everyone's like "brooooooooo no like xdddd everyone has eeemmmm they just kink shaaaameee", and the cycle continues.

It's all fun and games until someone gets groomed into something.

It's all "if it's at your home and consensual then whatever" until someone is mentally depraved and unable to function in society.

Just because me and you aren't victims doesn't mean it should be accepted in general.

Luv bbrkn