just a reminder ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

to anyone who needs to hear this, your coping mechanism, as long as it's not hurting you or others, is completely valid n healthy and don't let anyone tell you otherwise !!  it's your life, your story, your healing and the way you're healing isn't anyone's business, no one has the right to tell you how to cope with whatever you've been through or are going through at the moment. no one has the right to tell you how to feel or how to process your emotions and feelings, no one. no matter if your coping mechanism is gaming, writing, age regression, anything -- you're allowed to heal at your own pace and with things that bring you comfort and safety. if someone doesn't understand and doesn't WANT to understand, that's on them. not you. you don't ever have apologise and/or explain yourself for healing, for coping !! ♡