KIN LIST !! yes. I have one.

!!MY KINLIST AND WHY!!

Denki Kaminari - feeling like im not good enough, Kinda dumb + trans hc

Max from camp camp - trans hc + similar emotional state and looks

Mayuko Nise from high rise invasion - Sa + needing to prove urself (i think, its been a while since i've see this anime ngl)

The mirror guy from Jack stauber's Opal - Attention seeking

Toga himoko - Doomed Yuri + social outcast w/ an obsessive personality

Kaidou from saiki k - bros maladaptive daydreaming

Yellow guy from dhmis - Fatherless pt 1 + identity issues + forced compliance

Sonic - trans hc + silly + adhd + stoner hc

Silver - trans hc + constantly infantalized + unrequited love hc

Like him by tyler the creator - Fatherless pt 3

Answer by tyler the creator - Fatherless pat 2

Birdie from tuca and birdie - sa

Soul and Kid from soul eater - gender envy + silly + stoner hc

tatiana from wake up carlo - angsty but valid +stoner hc

Carlo from wake up carlo - silly + trans hc

Igor album - romance angst

Wolf album - teen angst

Ash ketchem - fatherless + trans hc

Criplup (crip piplup) - funny.

Asuka, Rei and Shinji from eva + unit 01 - (in order) Sa + mommy issues + attention seeking | Identity issues | Not being good enough + struggling to help yourself + sexual frustration + doomed yaoi + trans hc + parental issues + social expectations + not knpowing what you really want.

Pearl and amethyst from su - unrequited love | not being good enough

Blue diamond from su - depressed and sexy

Lightning mcqueen from cars - trans hc + cool racecar

Noodle and 2d - Karate + Dare music video | trans hc + gender envy

Rainbowdash and pinkiepie - Trans + adhd | poor emotional regulation

Rei Batsubami - trans

Mable - not good enough + maladaptive daydreaming

Dipper - (trans)

Clancy from midnight gospel - depressed but wise…? Agony filled but chill

Carol and Tuesday - (BESTIES!!)

Hilda - silly

Grell - trans

Ryan from Barbie life in the dream house - gay asf, puppy coded

Haru from beastarz - Sa, not god enough

haru from host club - trans

Legoshi + jack - mlm lovers… trans

Yumiko - intellectual + scociology hc

Midari - sa + major freak alert??? + gender envy ngl
Zoey from Kpop demon hunters - "Your too much.. and not enough, you dont belong anywhere"

Yes some of these characters are problematic but personally i relate to them bc of that, for one reason or another and reasons vary depending on who (i will answer questions). No, it does not mean i justify their actions or condone the weird shit they have done but i can relate to it, in a good or bad way due to js life experiences and trauma.