Breaking up w/ best friend?

I wishhhh i could talk about this anywhere else but I lowk can't,,, 

SOOOO in short.. I have two best friends, and we are a trio! I can't stress enough how close we are.... it's been more than 5 years since we've known each other and there isn't anything we can't take together.

However,  those two have taken up dating more than I can count, and that just leaves me alone and sad. I really like to hang out, but I hate when they make those "subtle" hints that they're dating, like I don't know. UHMMMM I've BEEN knowing. It's so obvious  !!!!!!!!!!!!  

I'm just betting on how long they'll last.. I've been thinking of bringing it up with/ them because it's gotten to a point where I just feel like I don't exist anymoreThey make it so obvious that they exclude me, that they change VCS, and that they talk about me without me knowing.

A friend of mine told me I should let go, but my entire life was an act of letting go, and for once, I'd like to hold on.  


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To he honest you should probably confront them, you are going to get completely nowhere without some sort of a communication, I think you should tell them about their actions and how it’s affecting your relationship with them. I don’t have the full picture but I feel like you should focus on yourself for a little bit (if it makes sense :d). Im not saying break up with your best friends, but maybe you should focus more on things you can do for yourself that make you feel better, like finding a new hobby, talking to people taking walks going to the library, when they intentionally ignore you just move on and do something you like. tldr: confront them and be honest, and focus on yourself for a bit.


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Ah sorry for the long ramble .0.

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Nah, thank you. just really needed the place to talk. Thanks dude <3

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no problemo :D

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no problemo :D

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no problemo :D

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