Why phantom sense is fake and stupid

Whenever I join a vr game, someone yells at the top of their lungs telling people to back up. It picks me off bc girlie??? No one finna get 39 and a half feet from yo beach ahh??? And it’s literal pixels, you can’t feel it irl but yiu excuse if feeling it form the game??? THAT MAKES NO SENSE?!!! You need a haptics suit for that, anyways live laugh love vr chat 💜