how to instantly farm aura points (trust)

this is jst some general life advice coming from a fellow Awkward Weird Teen™. obviously im not the best person ever, in fact i have a lot of flaws, but i want to help people to make their life better.

to not make this boring af, i'll use some agressive language lol so this is half jokingly but still it's good advice imo 🙏

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• get a fuckin personality

ok i know this is easier said than done. but having a strong sense of yourself and your values will make you seem much more approachable, and i know it's hard with social media. i personally deleted instagram a while ago and don't use social media a lot (besides this and yt), but you don't have to do that, just be aware that the content you consume might affect your life. look i don't care if you watch 4h of italian brainrot on yt shorts daily but fr get a personality outside of that🙏

whenever i see someone whose whole aesthetic, music taste, interests, etc are just a copy paste of some internet subculture, the first impression i have is "this person has no real personality, therefore isn't interesting". yea ik it might sound harsh and snobby, but sometimes you need to be hit in the face with reality and realize that clout and acceptance don't matter when they're directed at a fake persona you're cosplaying as. and not jst with aesthetics, people with a strong personality are usually the most interesting to meet, those who know what matters to them and don't let the crowd affect their choices. im not saying you have to bitchface at everyone you don't know lol just don't be desperate to talk to people who are clearly not worth your time.

by spending ur time focusing more on urself and not others you will make a huge improvement trust me bro🙏

• get off 4chan and the hub

this is more common with guys than with girls but it can happen both ways. sometimes, when someone has no personality and feels ignored, they resort to the shock value of so-called "dark humor" to make ppl notice them. and oh boy let me tell you this gives you so much negative aura.

if your only way to be funny is by saying you want trans people to kill themselves and joke abt 9/11 then im sorry you aren't worth anyone's time at all, get a fuckin life outside weird ahh forums. this just makes me think you spend too much time thinking abt things that piss you off and will always be defensive and in a bad mood. also "friend"groups that rely on this type of communication aren't genuine at all lol you will just feel pressured to be the most outrageous and won't form any meaningful bond.

 also with porn, it's way too normalized and having a porn addiction ain't cool. the porn thing in fact affects your ability to actually get and interact with a partner cause it jst distorts your perception of reality. bro if you're horny go wack it to some fake scenario or some shit not with those fake ahh videos and pics.

• don't pay attention to unnecessary drama

look everyone i've ever met who says "i love gossip it's so fun!!!" is a fuckin pain in the ass to deal with. they just want to criticize everyone over wtvr they do and it won't be too long until they start doing that abt you too, they just want you to listen and agree with anything they say. they'll crash out if u show any opposition, they're not your real friends. again this happens mostly with girls cause they're told to pity against each other but there are guys like this too.

if someone's constantly trying to piss you off by doing shit like posting targeted things on social media, starting rumors, etc, best you can do is ignore them cause they'll end up ridiculing themselves in public lol. i won't even judge you over what you must have done to get there cause that person doesn't care if youre actually a shitty person or not they jst want to drag you on the floor, and if you clap back at them they'll just play the victim so it's not worth it.

whenever i see someone on social media post targeted shit all i can think is "wow this person seems shitty, they just want to be seen as the good one no matter what it takes" so yea it is embarrassing. best you can do is block and ignore, but if it gets to a more serious situation (cyberbullying, threats, etc) honestly tell someone, NEVER take justice by your own hand cause they'll make you seem like the bad one. tell a friend, parent, teacher, etc.

• trust your gut

so many times i've thought "oh this person gives me a bad vibe" when first meeting them, and i was always right lol. i know we all deserve 2nd opportunities, but bro plz do not friend someone out of pity it will end bad for both of you.

and you might ask "but alex what gives you THE bad vibe??". well, it's usually people who will tell you about how they're "mentally unstable" and "never treated right" when first talking to them. we all have our problems but you're just gonna give a bad impression if that's the 1st thing you want people to know abt you, it seems like you just want them to feel bad for you. everyone who was like this always ended up being super manipulative by playing the victim so def watch out for that. remember that even if someone's genuinely mentally ill, that doesn't mean you have to look after them like a baby if they're not even your friend.

if someone says they have no friends, there is always a reason. trust me. no exceptions. i fell to this wayyy too many times lol it's actually embarrassing from me.

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guys i hope all this yapping was helpful🙏 srry if it's too long lol

this is how i feel rn btw