! Let me be clear,I am currently 15 and have never been with anyone (take note I'm also Muslim! :3) !
So,as a wonderful child who's gen z. Of course I'm usually on social media (I DO NOT use tiktok,hate all u want,I just don't want it) and obviously I've seen couples going around on my insta or in real life. Seriously, I don't really mind,some of them r kinda cute together
My main problem is kids. Including those my age,especially in my country,where its a Muslim country. We aren't even supposed to be dating,let alone touch men who aren't our family.I always see kids my age or younger posting about their "boyfriends" or "girlfriends" ..its..ew. If you ask me. Like seriously..your parents still buy your clothes and buy stuff for u to go to school and you do this. Dawg,I don't care if they like each other,sure. Just don't be a couple.. seriously. People who aren't from here will probably disagree but like..12 year olds..TWELVE YEAR OLDS are also already doing this "couple" thing bro..you're not even in highschool yet,chill out
I especially hate it when they get all touchy,even in public. LIKE BRO THATS HARAM ?!?! And you're openly doing it. Then a few months you break up?
I genuinely cannot understand it..Don't they feel..bad? For their future husband or wife? Because they already touched other people before marriage when you're clearly not supposed to. I also hate how people keep hating on each other. Like how men hate on woman,woman hate on men.
WE NEED EACH OTHER EQUALLY??
Yes the man is supposed to pay/do work but as woman we shouldn't take advantage of that. They work for money,to keep living. Of course they'll be tired. We? We also might be tired,cleaning,cooking,etc. But that doesn't mean we should just lash out on them and cut off their feelings completely. I've also seen this during mens mental health month. Why are we hating on them? Genuinely..men don't talk about their feelings often,they usually don't even have anybody.
We should look at this from a human perspective. We're all human,we're supposed to take care of each other. Why do some people act like suicide cases are something we shouldn't talk about? Yes, we all struggle but not everyone might have the privilege of someone by their side.
My point here is,we shouldn't like,use each other or hate on men/woman. And those kids need to learn more and realize what their doing is wrong...like finish school first then go ahead and date (If you still feel like its not HARAM sure :\)
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sally
most ppl r just effected by the social media propaganda the past years . i won't say ppl weren't like this century ago but it all changed after the creation of social media,ppl become more open abt their life , more women strarted supporting feminism more openly and that caused the long lasted fight between women and men( no offense after all )