comphet????

So for the past few months I've been questioning whether I'm bi or lesbian. A lot of my friends constantly tell my I'm a lesbian; half of them are just playing with me while the other half actually believe that I am a lesbian. I tend to relate a lot to those videos of girls that talk about their signs of comphet. The one thing really holding me from using the lesbian label is this one crush I had on a guy when I was 13 which was three years ago. I started reading the lesbian masterdoc and seem like the label actually does fit  me so.... Hopefully I start crashing out on my instagram spam and accept the fact that I'm probably a lesbian