You are NOT hard to love

you arent hard to love
youre just looking for love in wrong places
becouse eveyone has something that makes them "hard to love"
no person bats a tousend on personality traits
and weve all developed an adverse copingmechanism or two
or three
noneoes a walk in the park without any rocks in the way
sure other people might ahve pebbles whereyou feel you have boulders
but an obsticle is an obsticle
however big or small it may be
your obsticles may just take someone a bit longer to figure it out
a bit more time to work aroun
but the time it takes them to see it through
will be the time that shows them the glowing parts os you
that you hide behind yours "hard love" traits
you arent hard to love
you just been looking for it in places that are more keen ot simplicity
not authenticity
simplicity makes things easy
but it dosent always make things better
in fact in many cases its short lived and surface level
authenticity on the other hand
can be hard
it can be messy and tiring and confusing most days
but its also honest and raw and the key to loving someone fully
all of them
even they hard to love traits
they adverse coping mechanism and walking path boulders too
and this is how someone someday will love you
onece you stop looking for love
from people who want simple
from people who have no desire to know you
becouse you arent hard to love 
thes just dont care to take the time to get there
but someone that wants authentic will
and that is when youll know that youre looking in the right place
when you find someone wo falls inlove with the glowing parts of you
slowly moving the boulders out of the way
when you find someone who makes loving you easy
becouse you arent hard to love
and neither are your traits