Hey guys!!! Ive been feeing sad lately. I usually have periods of time where I feel like my friends aren't really my friends and that I'm alone. And I'm in one of those right now. I feel invisible almost. I have a good amount of friends but they either aren't super close or aren't very interactive with me. I noticed that some of my friends just tell me about their life and interests and then tend to stop responding for some time when I talk about my things and it makes me feel like I have to detach :/
Can you see why its upsetting me?
I want to reach out to other friends and maybe strengthen bonds but I dont want to gain the invisible feeling from yet another person so my brain just says "Mmmm.. Neh!"
I feel lonely right now UGHHHH! Any tips on feeling like this?!
Okay love you bye
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Averagestudent
I completely understand that feeling tbh. Especially with a lot of irl friends. You're not alone! („• ֊ •„)੭
It's gonna be tough going through that, I won't lie to you.
One thing I can say though, assuming the same friends do that to you over and over again, they are not worth your time. You shouldn't have to feel the need to not speak about what you like! You should be able to spill your heart out as much as you want !
That being said, if your goal is to strengthen bonds, don't be afraid to reach out to them ! You never know, something beautiful could come from it! :D (Still though, i get the feeling of feeling discouraged, totally understandable).