A man’s character on Social media

If your man isn’t posting pictures of you.

If he isnt acknowledging your relationship on social media, you need to stop brushing it off and really look deeper. 

Because more often than not, that silence speaks volumes. 

He’s either already cheating, flirting, entertaining someone else, or at the very least.....leaving the door open for other women to think he’s available. 

And that "I just like my privacy" or "I don't want drama" excuse.

That’s the go-to script for a man who doesn’t want to be held accountable for how he moves when you’re not around.

When a man loves you, when he's proud of you, when he’s....serious about you, he won’t hesitate to let the world know you’re his. 

He won’t hide you like a secret. 

He won’t tiptoe around the idea of claiming you publicly. 

In fact, he’ll want to show you off. 

It’s a pride thing. 

It’s a “look what God blessed me with” kind of energy. 

He’ll post your hand in his, your smile on his feed, your name in his caption... not because you’re begging for it, but because it’s natural for a man who values his woman to make her feel seen.

A man who refuses to post you is either not ready to lose his “single man” image or still trying to keep his options open. 

And if he’s telling you he doesn’t want people “in his business,” ask yourself ..

 what business is he trying to protect so badly ...

Because healthy love doesn’t fear transparency. 

A good man will protect the relationship, yes....but he won’t hide the existence of the woman he claims to love.

You deserve more than being kept in the shadows. You deserve to be loved out loud....not just in private, not just behind closed doors, but publicly, proudly, and intentionally. 

If he’s not posting you, and if he avoids acknowledging you online while posting everything else, including his lunch, his sneakers, and his gym selfies... it’s not about privacy. 

It’s about priority.

So don’t fall for the soft lies dressed up as emotional boundaries. 

If he can show off his lifestyle, he can show off his woman. 

And if he won’t... someone else will.