situationships/ talking stages don’t exist

I refuse to believe situationships & talking stages exist.

I can see how situationships MAY exist but talking stages?? You

mean js getting to know a person? This has been my view for

months, solely because I got told I’m someone’s failed talking stage. Like what the actual fuck is that? You failed to get to know me??? That js sounds like a skill issue. Jokes aside a lot of people love to act as if a talking stage is a body, which is an expression I despise wholeheartedly and it’s so strange. Like what is with this rise of everyone being pure, untouched in every sort of way? I feel like referring to a period of time you spend getting to know someone as a talking stage makes you start to either romanticise it after it has “failed” or to treat it as a failed relationship which would most definitely affect you. You spend time getting to know your friend too, is that a talking stage?? 

The idea of ever being told that someone has had multiple talking stages is almost hilarious because there is no way people take that seriously. It’s not a stain on your past or on your value, whatever ppl call it when someone is too “touched” for their liking, it’s just a normal part of human life, its connection, it’s curiosity and interest. Yeah, that’s all TALKING STAGES DO NOT EXIST ITS A USELESS TERM. thx 4 reading this angel:3