Soon 20

My birthday is in less than a month. 

I has a convo with my boyfriend about him finally turning 20 as his birthday just recently passed and I asked him on his sentiments of reaching this new milestone and aspect of his life and it is was interesting- he mentioned how people correlate their identity along with their age which I never really though of, he was just happy to be living in that very instance and to live life as him and ONLY as his self. 

The is a lot of power in that sense I suppose, he in turn asked me since I'm a month away from 20 and I said how it feels like I will be able to transition well into adult hood and I love being able the have more agency (which does mean more responsibility/accountability) but that doesn't scare me I tolerate what I want and decide who I am, what I wanna become and theres a lot of power of knowing that. This is obviously nothing new but its a tid-bit I wanted to share for anyone is slowly becoming a new 20 year old who will face on the tribulation of this century.