WHY THE HUDA HATE TRAIN?!?

I have recently watched Love Island USA, and I saw Jeremiah choose to stay with Iris despite having a strong connection with Huda, as both of them were very toxic to one another. Jeremiah love bombed tf outta Huda, which caused her to be very attached to him...especially after they smashed. Now Huda has to physically see Jeremiah in bed with another woman, including him not comforting Huda after America split them in the previous episode. I personally feel so bad for Hudah...although some of her actions were wrong..it was valid why she is crashing out. I see myself in Hudah...just a girl who falls in love and trusts too quickly, while also longing for someone to love her properly after getting hurt multiple times in the past for being genuine. I really don't support the Hudah hate train...she is extremely misunderstood.