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♪₊˚.🎧︵‿ ⩩ ᝢ dearest digi!diary 🎀
i recently gained a new friend, and i was unfortunately blocked and i'll explain why. if anyone sees this, i would like to be educated regarding conversational and social skills. (つω`｡)
so, apparently, i suck at conversations. (｡•́︿•̀｡) the person had blocked me in both platforms where we added each other. he told me that i kept changing the topics and i think that really bothered him. for starters, i think i was being too spontaneous and i overwhelmed the guy. i tried to do things as much as possible to keep him engage, and i think that was my first error... because too much topics overstimulated him. he told me once that "but you just changed the topic twice for like under 10 seconds"
the second one, he said that i was making fun of him. well, i would always say to someone whos behind my timezone that "imagine living in (the day before 12 midnight struck)" it was really just a tease, and i had no intention on making of him, but he said that "is your humor making fun of other people?" when technically, i was just really *really* teasing him about our time differences, not him. i would never. ( ; ω ; )
the last one was when i was recommending him this band named cigarettes after sex, and he asked me what should he listen to, and i said "i'm listening to K, but personally i prefer stop waiting more" thinking he had an idea on my statement. but unfortunately, i'm really a bad person to talk to about this. he told me after that he was listening to K, and then said "do you know memory reboot? it's used in a lot of edits" and me, being the dumb person that i am, said: "mind blown" (because memory reboot is used for a lot of edits where the creator sarcastically uses mind blown under it, so i thought he would get the reference o(TヘTo)) he then told me that he couldn't have a normal conversation with me, and told me he was out, and proceeded to block me.
the next morning, and the night before that, i got so anxious that i could barely do anything rather than soak myself in sadness, knowing i just scared a person away. i need an advice, please help me. (ಡ‸ಡ)
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kiko!
nah you didn't do anything wrong you were just trying to engage and get the feel. your humor wasn't the same and I guess you weren't compatible. and sometimes its just certain people are dry and don't like all those things so I don't think you gist would have worked out anyway.
you are NOT a bad person shush. give yourself a kiss ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡
youre so sweet qwq thank u kikocchi
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「 Bea๑ 」
I don't think it was anything you personally done, it sounds more like the two of you just aren't compatible in terms of friendship! I'm sorry to hear you lost a friend because of this, hopefully you're able to make friends with someone who better matches your vibe!
i got it!!! i'll still treat this as a lesson learnt: that not everyone has to bond with you >< it was such a waste, we bonded over things, so i was overcome by grief when he blocked me
by euphemia ꕤ; ; Report
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AA I'm sooo so sorry that happened!!!! Pretty plz don't be too hard in urself tho!!! Sum ppl just don't mix well in conversations, that doesn't mean ur bad at them!!! Even the biggest extroverts with the best social skills can't have conversations that suit both end's expectations!!!! T^T Besides u seem SUPER DUPER amazing and kind!!!! :3
OOPS I ACCIDENTALLY REPEATED WHAT THE OTHER SUPER AWESOME COMMENTOR JUST SAID!!! ToT MY BAD!!!!
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i'll keep that in mind!! TT as an introvert, it's actually assuring to hear that extroverts also experience AND overcome this dilemma... thank youu
by euphemia ꕤ; ; Report
𐔌 . ⋮ minnie .ᐟ ֹ ₊ ꒱
HIHIII i know it must’ve really hurt, especially when you were just trying to keep things fun and engaging. sometimes people just aren’t on the same vibe and that doesn’t make you bad at conversations. you’ve got a lively, playful way of talking and that’s not a flaw. it’s okay to learn and adjust, but don’t dim yourself too much. the right people will get you. be kind to yourself, okay???? OKAYY?? PLUS I LOVED YOUR BLOG LAYOUT SKSKSKSK!! PRETTY ૮꒰˶ᵔ ᗜ ᵔ˶꒱ა
thank you, minnieちゃん! i'll keep that in mind. TT i was so saddened and this sounds really assuring
by euphemia ꕤ; ; Report
euphemia ꕤ
this is really a fragile topic for me to talk about because im still anxious about it. i know im wrong, but i also know that i somehow have to talk this to someone so i could do better and face accountability properly. its ok if u guys call me out. im sorry!!!