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hi I'm miya! I have had the thought of getting back into blogging for a while now but couldn't. The main reason why I wanted to blog again was because how lonely I feel right now. I always end up feeling like a burden to everyone around me so I thought writing it down might feel better? anyways I'm in college and everyone keeps saying stuff about how I should do things in MY life. Sometimes perhaps it is said out of concern but idk I just feel it just adds to the pressure. This isn't how you can be successful or do this or you're a failure, it seems. Oh and also I'm not thick skinned enough and too emotional. I wonder why people just assume I'm myself not thinking about these things. I'm very much concerned about what the future holds for me but people being condescending is tiring.
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wko
Hii!! I'm still in high school but I think a lot about my future but I'm not the kind to plan in reality. I just want to say, you should go at your own pace. I don't like thinking ahead either cause I want to do this at its own right time. Follow your heart you know? It's your own life after all. You should live the way you want. That's how I'd want to live mine. And out of concern from those people saying that doing this brings you failure in the future or you won't be successful, tell me, do you really want to? If you do maybe take that advice. If not, go for what you want!! No one knows the result of everything. Maybe what you do brings you success in the future, if not, then don't be discouraged!! There will always be times like that in a person's life. Don't be scared at what the future holds, you have the ability to shape that. I'm scared too, I have been pressured by the great expectations my parents see in me even though I feel like I'd disappoint them in the future since I don't have that capability. But I always think positively. I like to imagine i would make it even though I'm highly unsure. Either way, I hope the best for you!!
heyy!! Thank you so much for your advice! I'm glad that you've held onto thinking positively about the future. It actually makes things less scary. I'm sure you won't disappoint anyone till you aren't disappointed in yourself. I'm rooting for you. Again sending lots of love your way!!
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