ida- 1 (looked thru my phone)

so ive made an other blog about her but this time ill talk about a thing that happened with me and my "friend" ida. so not long ago we had a sleepover. just normal nothing different. when i woke up she was already awake. actually she woke me up. she had to go in the morning we just ate breakfast  and when we ate she asked- "why did you screenshot my tiktok story" it was a random one i didnt remember screenshotting so ofc i said "oh it must have been an accident, i dont remember screenshotting the story" i asked her how she knew she replied with "oh tiktok shows me an notification when someone screenshots my story" i asked how she said her sister did it for her so she didnt know. weird- i thought but didnt pay so much attention  maybe it was some new update i havent gotten or something like that. when she left i went to get my phone. i had put it in charging but the charger had fell out for some reason. i just thought that was annoying and didnt think much of it. again when i got in tiktok i something weird.. i was logged in my secret alt account i dont remember logging into.. i thought it was something else and just blocked some people i know so no one would see it right?

 fast forward to the evening i saw my friend ida sending "?" to a video ive "sent to her" but i didnt remember ive sent it to her. thats when i realized that it was sent before i even woke up. i dont even know why it was sent and i put all the clues together and i was pretty sure she did it so what did i do? of course i confronted her. she denied. calling me toxic and said i was accusing her and that i was mean and it was messed up. i kept on confronting her and i almost thought maybe she was right she also said it might have been anyone from my family weird why would grown adults or 16 year olds wanna look through my phone- still i asked my family and ofc they said it wasnt anyone of them and the even laughed because it was such a stupid thing to say. anyways ONE day later she confessed. and said that she was gonna put a zesty backround picture to my phone and that she then thought it was HER phone and deleted the picture and started going through what she said she thought was her phone i asked her if i checked my recently deleted the picture would be there she said- "no i deleted it from there too" -weird right? she also said she only was on tiktok. what about that screenshot you were talking about right? from my photos i researched and you cant get it as a notification...

anyways all the trust i had from her is gone everything. i dont even wanna be her friend anymore we have had problems but i thought this is just too far is it right for me to not wanna be her friend anymore or am i just toxic ive had many other bad experiences with her that i also can talk about but this is one of them that just happened recently and i think im gonna stop being friends with her is that the right decision? i dont wanna be with her and she keeps on kind of manipulating me im not sure if she knows that shes doing it but it feels like it even my family says that shes manipulating me and that she has problems i just wanna know someone elses opinion on this. someone i dont know so they dont just say that im right and made the right decision because they are close to me and dont want to be rude! please give me an honest opinion on this situation and sorry if my spelling is not good english is not my first language and im not that old either and thank you for reading this and taking your time for this if you have read this far i would appreciate it if you would give me an opinion on all this drama the situation and if its okay to not be friends with her anymore. have a great day and thank you for reading my blog even tho its really long!