parents

little rant that doesnt matter much with no grammar here we go.. I've noticed people treat parenting so lightly like when they think about having kids they think immediately of babies and not just a whole human being. Ive had somebody tell me they wanted a baby cause they were "cute" without even thinking about any of the financial aspects. not even just financially but emotionally you need to be emotionally stable you should live your life and work on yourself before you think about bringing a whole ASS KID in the world. people act like parenting is something anyone can do but thats so wrong!!!!!! its like so hard and requires like so much from you its so exhuasting and i dont think people understand youre not choosing to just have a baby youre dedicating the next 18 years of your life to raising a human being. I know im just rambling but when I think of having a baby like I'd need to be mentally well enough i'd need to work on myself like SOOOOOOO much and like theres just a whole list that goes into it for me and it really upsets me how many people treat babies like theyre just dolls. Also I hate people who already pick out their childs lives before they live it like their fav sport, what kind of grades they're going to get, etc. we need to stop treating fucking PEOPLE like build-a-bears if you want to be a parent love your child unconditionally or dont have one at all. ranting on here makes me feel like the angry man shouting at the sky but thought id share a thought.