Dude, I love being nice so much. I love not holding grudges. I love not judging people.Ā
I have so much whimsy. So joyous. I have a pocket full of sunshine. I never judge a book by its cover. Life isnāt all sunshine and rainbows, but I can make it a bit better for the people around me.Ā
I donāt get why some people just choose hatred. I feel so happy when I give someone a compliment, or show someone something I love. I feel so happy when others are, too. I donāt care if someone is ācringe.ā As long as they are happy and not harming anyone, I donāt care. If it is something I disagree with, I just ignore it.Ā
But this doesnāt mean I donāt have a sort of punk passion towards certain topics. If someone is against LGBTQ, and activelyā keyword, activelyā goes against the community to harm people, then I wonāt respect them. And I will have anger towards them. But that is in the occasions where I believe anger is justified. I am allowed to my own emotions. Others are as well, but itās a matter of keeping thoughts to yourself or doing something rash about it.Ā
I find it odd that some people hate on therians, furries, and people with neopronouns. They are just expressing themselves. Furries are no different than cosplayers, really. Therians are just having fun and most often, itās kids that are therians (in general, I donāt know of any adult therians, but Iām sure there are some out there) and theyāre just having fun! People with neopronouns just have a different way of connecting with identity. It isnāt too confusing imo, itās similar to a nickname. Cat/catself; Oh that book was catās, cat is over there by catself. It isnāt too hard! And most of the time they use they/them or a binary pronoun as well!
Ā Iām rambling now. Point is, just leave people be. If you disagree, you can politely tell them that, but donāt send hate to them.Ā
Being kind feels so good. Sometimes Iām kind just out of spite. My art teacher was a nightmare at the beginning of the semester, but being nice and perfect out of spite? Now I genuinely like her! She really is a good teacher, she just has disrespectful students.Ā
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Be nice. Just for the hell of it if nothing else. It saves you anger. It saves you the trouble of hating people. It improves your self esteem to know that maybe life is worth it, even just a little.Ā
So thereās my stance.Ā
Just felt like ranting a bit, no real reason lmao.Ā
TL;DR, I love being kind because it saves me trouble plus judgmental people kinda suck.Ā
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Åukasz
Kochanie, Teach your ways....
āAriStarā
THAT'S SO TRUE!!! Being kind and generally trying to be emotionally available for every person is wonderful. It actively requires for you to put yourself in other persons shoes.
While being hateful and spiteful, and thinking that everything is "cringe" is really easy, it actively takes joy from that persons life due to their own, or societal prejudice. Sad stuff.
Tho, I agree that the kindness and understanding should be limited to when that person threatens safety of others self expression, and well-being. p:
As long as you don't hurt yourself and other people, every form of self expression should be welcome.