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Like don't get me wrong, I love me some back and forth subtle flirting and the whole liking each other's instagram stories bit, but like it gets tiring up to a certain point :(
Like, just why doesn't she just text me?? She likes my stories constantly, even when I upload a workout pic and she likes all my reposts that are clearly for her, and I've caught her looking at me a lot of times, so like she seems interested, but when I text her, she never answers quick and sometimes completely forgets to answer.
For once I wish I could be like the girl in a relationship. Like just compliment me at least once, goddamnit. Or text me. Or do any effort so I know you like me. You already liked enough stories, so do smth else! I can't always be the only one to put effort in my relationships, I'm tired of that
lmao she's not gonna read this obviously but it's nice to get this off my chest somewhere
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cassie.avi
you say this but arent you also not being straight forward? maybe shes unsure or nervous and doesnt know how to respond to you or if those stories are really for her. you could always text her and ask if theres a reason she never really responds via text and if theres some better way of contacting her
but i feel you.. it SUCKKSSS.. can we just like make a marriage contract like its 1852 and our parents are trying to combine their oil drilling business.
lmaooo, yesss, like let's just get married already, what is she waiting for?
But yeah, I get what u r saying and u probably right.
Although ig my issue isn't really with her specifically, it's just that in every relationship I've had there's always been kind of a pressure to be the "man" of the relationship, u know? To be the one who always makes the first step and the effort with compliments, gifts, and all that stuff, so I kinda wish it could go the other way for once. And don't get me wrong, I love doing all that stuff, because I love making others feel loved, but like sometimes I wonder how it would feel to be treated like a princess in a relationship, u know? lmaoo
by suli0w1k; ; Report
you can always find a partner like that, dont give up home! i feel like when youre the active "seeker" in the relationship people tend to fall back into the "seeked" role and dont really try because they assume you WANT to play that role and they dont wanna disrupt it. like alot of people ENJOY being the one to peruse others. i get its not really something you can easily communicate in a courting stage, but you might just have to directly ask for your partner to do romantic things for you too. maybe try to find someone whos love language is also acts of service and gifts and being the "man" in the relationship who also happens to enjoy receiving that stuff too?
its not impossible!! its might just be kind of difficult because those people tend to already be IN relationships,, for obvious reasons. but it never hurts to be clear about what u want!
i do hope u have better luck soon (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) .ᐟ.ᐟ
by cassie.avi; ; Report
omg, u r like sooo nice T u T
thankss for cheering me up! u r right, it's just a matter of time until I meet someone like that
by suli0w1k; ; Report