Why is everyone on this site so terminally self-absorbed? You are not the main character. You're not the next Plato. You're 21, drowning in debt, and ranting on an internet forum like the rest of us.
I don't give a shit if we disagree, whatever that happens—what pisses me off is this smug, "I'm so intellectually superior" act you pull the second someone challenges your batshit take. That's when I stop respecting you entirely.
No one here can just disagree. It's all or nothing. Either you're 100% right, or suddenly the other person is a Nazi, a genocidal commie, or some cartoon villain you made up in your head.
Is that what you want? An echo chamber? A personal cult where everyone parrots your views so you can bust a nut every time the top blog is another 9-paragraph anarchist wet dream?
You’re not a prophet. You’re not enlightened. You're not the second coming of Christ. You're just another loser on the internet—like me, like everyone else here. So quit pretending you’re above it all.
We did it SpaceHey
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zee
i AM the main character, its my blog!!
Crypt of Drugula
You say this place is turning into a “pseudo-intellectual circlejerk,” but ironically you’ve written a whole essay complaining that other people are too verbose and opinionated, while being just as verbose and opinionated.
Also speak for yourself dood.
I am, in fact, a prophet. I am enlightened. I am the second coming of Christ.
I love this<33
by Jackie; ; Report
⛧ Evan Ghostheart ⛧
that's why i'm never really reading the top blogs, i'll give kudos to the silly and fun ones where people are just being themselves and showing art or something they made or talking about music they like, or some stuff my friends post (which is pretty much what i described)
I agree, spacehey is so much fun if you just don't give a fuck about the petty dramas and just enjoy the site for whatever it is for ^_^
by Et tu, Brute? 𒉭 (prof in work); ; Report
Alexis XIV
The truth is, some of the worst breeds of people tend to gather on these sites. When I came on here 2 years ago, it was just the same. As much as we wish it could be, I doubt much will change.
beeheart
This! It's like Instagram all over again. Probably because there are a lot of people like that on TikTok/Instagram coming into this site. Here I am trying to flee away from the crazy Insta mentality but they're here ToT (there's two top blogs on here that already did that. It's not wrong entirely but it's annoyingly dramatic)
xX_ItsmyGloomyday_Xx
that sounds insane. what kind of absolute maniacs are u finding on here? maybe cuz i usually only find ppl my age here (besides like a 20 year old) but everyone i've met in my 4 years on this site have i only met nice ppl... unless you're chatting in the politics phorum maybe? havent been there alot but ive seen some crazy ppl there
juno
when someone has the same take as you but they express it in such an annoying way that you lowkey don't want to agree:
☣𝔑𝔞𝔥𝔢𝔪𝔞☣
what? this is the first time I've seen this. I've never met people like this here. and anyway, what the fuck are you talking about?
Same
All my friends are silly people making friends, drawing art, making strawpages, and posting bulletins on about their day.
Where are you all finding these weirdos, i’ve been on spacehey for 2 years and the only weirdo that friend requested me was an old guy looking for sugar babies(probs a scam, but I wouldn’t know because I rejected the fr)
by ziv⊹₊⟡; ; Report
I second (third?) this, everyone I hang out with is just having fun and sharing their passions. You get to curate what you see on here, if you don't want to do something or follow someone you don't have to.
by Shannara 🦋🔮; ; Report
I agree with this cause although I have barely even been on this site for an hour I have not seen any kind of people the OP has described so my guess is that its targeted at a specific person (?) but even then its kind of unfair to group the entire community together as this..
by Davis; ; Report
clarabowsgf
No, seriously. I got blocked all because I sent someone a friend request. I think their only follower was their girlfriend. Why join a website dedicated to making friends if the only person who is allowed to interact with you is your girlfriend? All they had to do was reject the request instead of treating me like I was a weirdo for trying to interact
fr
by AllTheLonelyPeople; ; Report
♫︎ ✯star✯ ♫︎
It's so easy for certain people to have such an inflated ego idgi
doe ദ്ദി ˉ͈̀꒳ˉ͈́ )✧
spacehey is for redditors who haven't hit puberty soon enough to be neckbeards
Random_fkn_ufo
*flies past*
Holy shit did you guys see that???
by Obie Ramsey Doomsday; ; Report
Hey, you probed me the other night and never called me back
by Joan; ; Report
Spiral
whenever i read "anarchist wet dream" i knew exactly which article you were talking about ehehehehe
10/10 good post
jamie ! (PROFILE WIP!)
thats so real sometimes i see some . concerning takes
Bleemie
im wondering tho
what does An think of this
ive seen wayyy too many blogs like these pointing out the flaws and how much it fell from grace
ive made some like a year ago
like ever since the layouts closed i dont think ive heard much from him regarding these issues
Gothic.Aficionada
"You’re not a prophet. You’re not enlightened. You're not the second coming of Christ. You're just another loser on the internet—like me, like everyone else here. So quit pretending you’re above it all."
Preachhhh
azajeia
People are saying it’s the entire internet, but Spacehey is FULL of the people that do that here. Some of these people in the comments saying they haven’t seen this kind of behavior before or claiming you’re wrong either haven’t observed Spacehey enough or contributes in it, and don’t want to take accountability. (Looking at YOU, Javier).
I argued with someone over emojis. WHO THE FUCK ARGUES OVER EMOJIS??
There’s a TON of edgelords here unfortunately & people who are absolutely cringe/not right which is why I don’t friend anyone. Not trying to make myself sound like this “full” person, but several people ARE weird here. Hypocrites, entitled, ignorant, etc.
I’m all about opinions, but don’t be a dickhead after YOU say something offensive to the other person then get all sensitive. Every action causes a reaction.
talkbox
as the cartoon villain you made up in your head, i’m coming for you little bro
TYSON
yup, there is chosen sides and if you dare to oppose them youre dogpiled. theres no room for discussion and understanding, its a competition of moral superiority.
this is everywhere on the internet, but this site being so small it really fosters that behaviour. its ridiculous. you try to have a conversation to understand and people react as if youre going in for a fight.
Evan
I feel like this is just all of the internet. Unfortunately, our generation (GenZ) has grown up to be extremely self absorbed, judgemental and moralistic. It's so sad to see so many "haters" online, when did bullying become normalised again?
Anyways, I'm tryna get back on Spacehey and am free to talk to anyone if they wanna chat!