It’s not even about drugs, It’s about what fun turned into

In the past few years  every time I go out (partying or whatsoever) it feels like the only way anyone knows how to have fun is by getting completely wrecked (I’ve done my stuff, I'm not judging).

 Like doing drugs Is the whole point of going out and they just can't have fun without them, it has gotten tiring tbh, I feel like they don't enjoy hanging out if we're not high/extremely drunk and I feel most people are either like this or they just don't go out at all lol 

Ik not everyone is like this, but why is it so hard finding people who just genuinely enjoy being in each other's company? :/