Out of curiousity does anyone ever experience limerence (love addiction/obsessed with someone)?
If so, any tips on how to cope with it? I've been going nuts for like 2 months now over one person I just can't seem to let go of. I daydream scenerios of whenever he actually likes me back, or just any scenerio with him. I don't wanna sound insane but it's really true. Again any coping mechanisms i can use?
I don't rlly experience it personally but sort of a similar thing with a person. What has helped me is, accept those thoughts but don't thing about it: 1. You think about them 2. You brush it off tell yourself smth like 'It doesn't really matter' basically make them boring or insignificant for your brain 3. If they keep popping up, try to get into it, and then do something your brain doesn't expect like idk, yeeting them with a frying ban (literally anything so dumb) 4. Try to distract yourself with a hobby (If its rlly bad then you migjt know it doesn't work tjat well but it's still worth a try imo) Also it worked for me, it goes away after a while they just become nothing special in your brain just 'eh'. My Theory: It's because of 1. You're lonley (sorry no offence!!) and your brain keeps thinking abt them, because nobody else is there so it keeps bringing the memories, etc. of them back, its not ur fault it even if u dont like them anymore so just hang out w new people it worked for me (maybe for u itll work if u hang out w a dif ppl u attracted to). Yeah it might not be true for you but it was like that for me AHHA SORRY FOR THE RANT I JST RELATED TO IT HIPE IT HELPED
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Rotkappchen
I don't rlly experience it personally but sort of a similar thing with a person.
What has helped me is, accept those thoughts but don't thing about it:
1. You think about them
2. You brush it off tell yourself smth like 'It doesn't really matter' basically make them boring or insignificant for your brain
3. If they keep popping up, try to get into it, and then do something your brain doesn't expect like idk, yeeting them with a frying ban (literally anything so dumb)
4. Try to distract yourself with a hobby (If its rlly bad then you migjt know it doesn't work tjat well but it's still worth a try imo)
Also it worked for me, it goes away after a while they just become nothing special in your brain just 'eh'.
My Theory: It's because of 1. You're lonley (sorry no offence!!) and your brain keeps thinking abt them, because nobody else is there so it keeps bringing the memories, etc. of them back, its not ur fault it even if u dont like them anymore so just hang out w new people it worked for me (maybe for u itll work if u hang out w a dif ppl u attracted to).
Yeah it might not be true for you but it was like that for me AHHA SORRY FOR THE RANT I JST RELATED TO IT HIPE IT HELPED
Omfg why is it so long im logging off
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Ngl this some useful info lowk TuT thanks also nw about the rant!!
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