HOMOPHOBIC PEOPLE PISS ME OFF

why are people so homophobic !!!!!! they literally piss me tf offf ... i have been friends with these girl for so long and like she never knew i was gay not like i was not out and proud everytime i was with her and shit. she freaking thought i was kidding or joking sum shit like that ,,,,,, WHO EVEN JOKES ABOUT LIKING WOMEN NO LIKE WHO DOESNT LIKE WOMEN. so she texted me yesterday and shes like i want to ask you sth but i dont have the courage to , i just know she wants to ask if im gay . IM BOILING WITH FURY RN CHAT