DRAMA jk not really

so, i have these two friends from when i was in middle school, well call one Anna and one Isa, i was always super close with Isa, while with Anna i was on okay-ish terms, we were all in a same class and we had absolutely no beef..

later middle school ended and Isa went to one highschool and me and Anna went to another, where me and Anna cut all contact, while i thought we'd get closer because she's really fun to be around, as proved when we went to excursion together

until recently, my friend Isa, posted on her instagram story one of those "like my story and ill introduce u" stuff which i liked, soon she posted a tiny intro to me, where she stated my trans name, Teo.. Anna didnt know i was trans and saw the story with my @ in the story

some hours later, after the story was posted, i get a call from Anna, asking if im really trans, and me being the idiot i am, said yes with little to no thinking

and so months go by, i forget about it, one day im arguing with a classmate in the school gc, and then one guy said "Whatever you say Teo"

my heart nearly stopped, i immediately went to confront Anna, because shes one of the rare people who knew about me being trans, where she DENIED IT, and she was so casual about it too, i wanted to believe that she didnt spread that information, but i couldnt, all evidence was pointing at her, especially since Anna and that guy talk sometimes

some months later once again, im talking with a buddy about an instagram gc messages that got leaked to the teacher, and he said that he left that groupchat, but he also said that all the guys in that gc knew i was trans. They all knew it, made jokes behind my back (except the guys im avtually friends with)

i still deny im trans whenever someone asks me. im too scared of how it can backlash, just like thiss did, and im considering just giving up, living with being a woman ill always be in the judging eyes of everyone