Romanticizing dark romance

I wanted to talk about dark romance. i get the point and the aesthetic, but i dont think romanticizing grape is okay? people SUFFER from this. They cant live like they should because it haunts them, and some people wish to be Graped? thats sick. I understand if someone is unstable and thats a symptom of something, but if theyre not, why do we romanticize it? i think thats just disgusting. Just like propping someone whos a p3do or gr4pist. sick sick SICK!1!11!11!111111!!