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My gender identity is confusing. I’ve been identifying as genderfluid for some months now, and I don’t think it fits me that well anymore.
I also don’t like being referred to with ANY pronouns. Whether it’s she/her, he/him, or they/them, all of them don’t fit me well. I like it/its tho, but it’s not like anyone is gonna call me that. So instead I’m jst using all pronouns currently.
An identity ive considered is agender, it means you have no gender. I like how simple this is, and it feels a lot cleaner while genderfluid feels more messy. I’m just scared to start calling myself agender because I’ve felt that genderfluid fit me for so long.
I really do feel like agender fits me, but it might take some more reflection.
I always liked genderfluid bc sometimes I don’t mind being perceived as feminine, sometimes I feel very masculine, but most of the time I jst feel like nothing.
My pronoun preference seems to change every day, but I dont wanna tell my friends a new set of pronouns every day and expect them to call me that. I feel really bad doing that.
I used to use neos, but I decided not to. I feel bad making ppl call me them. And they don’t fit me right anyways.
You could say smth like “ur young, ur gender doesn’t matter” but to me it does a lot when I feel dysphoria every day and hate my own skin. This is genuinely distressing for me and I don’t want to be brushed off.
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ocean
dont be so hard on yourself trying to conform to a label, labels can be helpful for navigating self discovery yeah but you don't haaave to put yourself in those boxes you know. its alright for your identity to change as you grow too, after all 'finding yourself' is a hoax because you keep creating your self along the way