anyway so like i've been really meaning to get back into dressing a little more fem, despite my masculine wardrobe and the idea of it being something i've said i would prefer to do if/when i start taking t(estosterone), right?,, mainly bc i found out last halloween that skirts feel weirdly gender-affirming for me after doing an ashley graham cosplay. if you saw my bulletin for that forever ago (probably not), ykwim. anyways
MY issue- besides getting accidentally misgendered in public more often- is like. the association between boys wearing skirts n thigh highs (another thing i like wearing) and femboys. like, PLEWAASE DONT CALL ME ONE. UGH. not to mention that i'm already wearing cropped shirts more often.
ik it doesn't even matter in the end. they're just clothes and clothes don't have genders, and i don't think anyone besides the guys at my dumb school would even USE the term, but idk something about the idea of being called that irks me a little lmao. THIS IS SO DUMB. i'm so sorry.
if you consider urself to be a femboy IDC. that's your own thing. personally i just wanna be seen as a guy wearing a skirt. that's it lolol
either way i need to buy more because i only have the one from that cosplay, so i'll probably go thrifting or something. haven't worn one out n about since that halloween though because i'm a pussy, so.........yeah. yes!
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romeo
I guess you can't really avoid it unfortunately, lmao.. People call u a femboy for anything these days lord have mercy
What I recommend is just not really care what people think. It's hard but it works 
LITERALLY

but ur right
ultimately i think it also has the potential to help me learn to be less self-conscious and just enjoy how i look, i just have to try suuuuper hard lol. also ty!! AND SORRY. i didn't see this til now asgdhjk
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