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hello everyone ! i hope you're all doing great ! ദ്ദി(｡•̀ ,<)~✩‧₊
in my last blog post, i mentioned how being in high school feels like you're constantly being watched and judged.
i started thinking about it more and my thoughts landed on loneliness. i wanted to talk about this because i feel like we often overlook loneliness especially when we're young because it can be hard to process and understand.
one thing for sure is that loneliness sucks. it's brutal and sometimes it can be hard to notice in other people.
loneliness is so isolating and you would think that people who are lonely would act out more (which can be the case, don't get me wrong). however, isolation is a common coping mechanism because it allows you to lose control of the situation when you're by yourself. its easier to keep your composure when others are around, but when you're on your own, who can keep you from breaking down ?
loneliness isn't loud, it's heavy. it can destroy our sense of self worth which makes reaching out so much harder. that's why isolation seems like the best option. it's comfortable and easy to go about.
feeling all alone is like being stuck in a glass box. you can see the world around you, yet you feel disconnected from it.
i can go on and on about loneliness and how mentally draining it is, but i don't want to make this blog post too long. i'll add more to this topic another time !
in the meantime, i pray you all have an incredible day and if you're feeling lonely, come talk to me. i'm here to listen (˶◜ᵕ◝˶)
you don't have to go through this all alone. love you lots ! (ෆ˙ᵕ˙ෆ)♡
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Eliasssss
my next session it's my first high school year, Any advice? :[
yess ofc !
1) first thing to keep in mind is that it is not as scary as you think ! a lot of people go into high school with a negative mindset, but it's really not that bad ! (˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶)
2) high school is what you make it ! i suggest trying new things even if it seems terrifying or out of your comfort zone. you never know what can happen ! instead of asking yourself, "what if it goes wrong ?" try asking, "what if it goes right ?"
3) never try being someone you're not. that's the predicament most high schoolers face. everyone around you is trying to figure who they are, so some people may judge you, but that's okay. never feel sorry for who you are ! if you're being yourself, that draws people in and you'll make friends naturally.
4) never be scared to ask for help or to reach out because struggle does come with high school. it doesn't matter if you don't understand a math problem or if you're just feeling hurt. ask someone for guidance and advice no matter what the situation is !
if you ever need more advice, feel free to ask me ! please remember that high school is a new chapter of your life, so if you're hurting, it won't last forever. things will get better.
high school goes by fast, so have as much fun as possible ! you're going to do great things, i just know it ! ٩(^ᗜ^ )و ´-
by ネリアが屁をこく; ; Report
omgg thank youuuuuuu that so sweet of u and now I'm not that nervous after your advices bc feel like it's normal chapter in my life, and thank you again i appreciate it <3
by Eliasssss; ; Report
no problem ! i'm glad i could help you ! i hope you have a great rest of your day
♡⸜(˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶)⸝♡
by ネリアが屁をこく; ; Report
omgg ur so sweeeet thanks againnn :)
by Eliasssss; ; Report