This is serious please

What do i do at a funeral, i've never been there and last night my grandma died, i dont know if im ready to go to one im scared pkease tell me what to do

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uroboric :P

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I rarely go to funerals since I don't like them, but I got dragged to go to my great-uncle's funeral. First we waited at the funeral home (is that what you call it?) to chat with the family, wait for people so that everyone could go together to church. surprisingly, people were very lively and happy in a sense, talking about everything except my uncle, but that depends on the family

you go to church and people will be mostly crying there, and when church ends you may want to/be forced to go to the graveyard... or not

you'll be fine. people are going to be more worried about the one who unfortunately passed/the plans they had for the day so nothing goes sour than what you do. cry or not cry, that's on you. i loved my uncle and i didn't cry

may she rest in peace, and may you have an easy night

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thank you so much

by ꩜☆𝔞𝔰𝔥☆꩜; 1748854545; Report

take it easy, this things are hard and people don't know what to do in these scenarios. the best case is if you "fuck up" (HIGHLY unlikely), people won't even remmeber because they're more focused on their own feelings. just be you, come with a heavy heart, leave without it

by uroboric :P; 1748854659; Report

you're really helpful. Have a nice life and thank you so much again<3

by ꩜☆𝔞𝔰𝔥☆꩜; 1748866793; Report

Of course, the bare minimum!! You too!

by uroboric :P; 1748867394; Report

TERRY

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Just getting out your feelings is best. My friends dad died recently and they had the funeral not to long after. I cried so much at it. I felt so much better afterwards. It’s best to just cry or be angry however you express sadness

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im so sorry about your loss, thank you so much too<3

by ꩜☆𝔞𝔰𝔥☆꩜; 1748854574; Report

YA4KOV

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Cry and don't stop crying, get out all the feelings you have at that moment

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thank you

by ꩜☆𝔞𝔰𝔥☆꩜; 1748854603; Report