stupid drama

you would think i am still in highschool with the way people around me act. the whole time we were in school it was "i cant wait to get out of here" but now that we are out it seems that nothing has changed. obviously graduating highschool isnt a magical ticket to maturity but these people constantly tell others to grow up yet act like children themselves!! 

for context, my best friend (i'll call her B) has been friends with this insufferable woman for a really long time. ill refer to the insufferable woman as mia. (fake name just for safety)

B was mia's best friend for almost 4 years. they were extremely close and were practically like sisters. I have literally never heard B say a single bad thing about mia. i have been friends with B longer than shes known mia, but we havent been super close until recently. when i started getting close with B again, i started noticing weird behavior from mia. It wasnt anything blatant, but it was slight passive aggressiveness. slightly targeted posts on social media, weird looks when we hung out in a group, purposefully excluding people, you know what im describing. regardless, B never said a single word against mia. 

mia ran her friend group like the military. no one could ever say anything to disagree with her and no one could call her out for any rude behavior or her snarkiness. if anyone said anything to her, she would completely blow up on them and say the nastiest things she could think of. a prime example was during the election, i wont specify who voted for who but you might be able to tell with some context clues. it was our first year being able to vote and my boyfriend & i posted a "just voted" photo of us. it was cute and i was excited for my first year voting. she viewed my post and began ranting incoherently on her own story, calling the opposite party stupid and all sorts of things like that. she proceeded to post a photo of her newborn child wearing a onesie in support of the political party. she also did the same thing when one of her closer friends spoke out about the candidate she was supporting.  this was when i officially decided i do NOT like her, but i will put up with her for the sake of B. 

now here is where the actual drama begins. everything was fine for a few months, and i even hosted a new years eve party which  mia & her friend group attended. the party went smoothly, though it was awkward because i hadnt seen mia or spoken to her since the election drama. in the weeks after the party, however, is when things started to go astray. it had become a bit obvious mia was slightly jealous of me and B. not because she was worried about me stealing her best friend or anything, but B and i would hang out and do fun things, drink alcohol and party. this upset mia because she had just dropped out of highschool a few weeks before graduation and ended up having a baby. she is no longer able to go out and do things like we were able to do. so in retaliation, seemingly, she reached out to B's ex girlfriend and began hanging out with her. They used to be friends when B was dating her, but after the breakup the ex girlfriend and mia fell out too. when B found out mia was hanging out with her ex girlfriend, she was extremely hurt. their relationship was really toxic and she still wasnt fully healed from the breakup. when she voiced being hurt, mia called B selfish and freaked out about her not being there for her all the time. B would drop everything for mia and they were always together. this hurt B even more because she was an extremely loyal friend to mia this whole time, they were quite literally two peas in  a pod. in the end, B ended up sucking it up and mia continued to hangout with her ex. 

as this went on, mia started inviting B and her ex to the same parties, along with the ex's new girlfriend. B was so hurt by this and would voice her feelings to me, but never said a bad word about mia. after a couple of these parties, mia stopped talking to B completely. she stopped reaching out and would never answer B's messages. B was so confused and hurt, since this had been her best friend of years who she supported unwaveringly. throughout mia's whole pregnancy B was right by her side and constantly offered to help with the baby once it was born. mia ghosted her out of nowhere. then mia's entire friend group started sneak dissing her over instagram. it got so noticeable to the point B was calling me while i was at work to cry about it. i hated seeing her so hurt and so did our other friends. 

at this point, our friend (i will call her venus) had enough of watching them bully B online with no one saying anything. like me, venus never like mia from the start. we had been accumulating more and more reasons to dislike her over time. after mia's minion made a certain post on instagram, venus could not keep her cool . she made a post calling out mia for being a bad mom for smoking weed and nicotine while pregnant and drinking alcohol while breastfeeding. she called her out for being a bad friend to B and blaming B for things that had nothing to do with her. they started arguing over instagram DMs and it became a whole debacle. keep in mind, venus is 16. mia is 18/19 (im not quite sure.) mia posts a photo of venus on her story talking about venus's boobs and making fun of her body. she starts threatening venus and mia's whole friend group went to venus's house to jump her (thank goodness she wasnt home lol.) the craziest part is that mia blamed the whole thing on B even though B didnt say anything. the only good thing about all of this is that i dont have to hang out or deal with that dumbass ho mia anymore. she is a horrible person and there is so much more detail i could have gone into...

anyway. on a more positive note i have been feeling much less depressed over the few weeks. ive been able to get up and do my makeup and ive been taking care of myself so much more. it has been really hard but i am glad the sad feeling is lifiting. i got a digital camera (nikon coolpix l24!) and ive been taking so many photos. id appreciate tips if anyone has any lol. i did my hair in a kinda emo style today and i am super happy with it lol. <3

okk anyway ive been writing for a minute now and im getting a bit tired/hungry. goodbye to the two people who read this lol, thank you and i hope you have a great day !! ૮꒰ ˶• ༝ •˶꒱ა ♡