school & drama

if theres any piece of advice i could give to girls especially going through drama at school, it will always be to stand up for yourself.

bullying is way too normalised these days and people still continue to subdue to the bystander effect , which i personally hate!

as someone who once transferred from different schools because of such things i know how hard it is to struggle on your own, however i dont hate those experiences, if anything i do appreciate them in some spirit.

i was a gossiper at the time and had a rumor thrown at me and i finally got the taste of my own medicine funnily enough, but the rumor grew larger and it felt more like my world was ending when i was left on my own. but there were a few girls who genuinely lit up my life in that time , and to anyone reading this :

be that person for someone else, even if they seem deserving of it , just be that person. you dont have to do a lot or become their new bff , but have the decency to treat them as a human.

in those situations even teachers are no help as well unfortunately!

overall my message is that : bullying should never be acceptable, if somebody is an utter bitch or even way too boasty ( being a boaster duh) , than just say it ! it may seem like a slap across the face to someone else but it will probably save them months or years worth of drama🎀

fyi: anyone who needs someone to talk to or just any help regarding stuff like this, friend me!