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ok so i made an AITAH story abt my bitch of an ex-friend because she was starting to pmo and she keeps following me around thinking we're besties but im ignoring her for a reason (she's racist, a pick-me, begs for attention, and her entire personality is having a crush on asian guys sybau)


So, here's the background. There's this girl, we'll call her Emily (13F) and we go to the same high school. I (13F also) have been going here for three years. We started at the same time but she left because of bullying a little under a year in and rejoined a few months ago. Before we met recently, I had no idea who she was and I'd never heard of her during our starting year. We met first after she was talking to a, now, mutual friend of ours and I joined in on the conversation. As it turns out, we take the same bus, and I've been sitting next to her every time we happen to get it together. We became pretty close friends and we talked a lot about school, which I'll bring up later.

The reason I feel I can't talk to her anymore is that she keeps getting herself into drama with other people in our year. I was fine with this since I know most others we know can be pretty mean but it was getting excessive. She was practically begging to get bullied with how she acted. I know, it's the bully's fault, not the victim's, but she does things anyone with a brain would try their hardest not to if they didn't want to get into trouble with someone. It's like she has no off switch and she talks to everyone, even if they don't like her. The main thing was with this one girl, we'll call her Kate. Kate is one of those people that always annoys you little by little until you finally just can't take it anymore. And that's what she did. She'd make little comments aimed at Emily and she'd literally do anything just to get a response from her, which she always got. Emily would come crying to me and now I was involved. I didn't mind, obviously because she's my friend but now I was getting noticed by people who never even knew I existed before.

Emily would ask me to go behind her in dinner queues sometimes when Kate was behind us but I didn't want to. I mean, who would? I don't really like socialising. Emily, however, is the exact opposite. She does absolutely everything out loud. She sings when people, who are quite obviously bullying her, ask her to and she just entertains them like nothing is going on. Like, she's either dumb or she's just trying to get bullied. If she's dumb, I really am sorry for saying this but she's bringing it on herself. We eventually got the Kate situation sorted out but she was still getting rude comments from other people who caught onto it and of course I was the person she had to dump this on.

Just for the record, the only reason I was hanging out with her is because, yeah, she's nice, but also because when we found out we took the same bus, she called me over to talk about school, again, I'll bring this up later, and after she said I was her "best friend". What? We met once. But anyway, she was kind so I thought 'why not?'. That was a mistake.

More recently, a girl we'll call 'Mia' got angry at Emily. All because someone (a girl called Pheobe who comes back later) asked Emily who she thought was the prettiest of Mia and herself. Sorry if that doesn't make sense. But Emily, of course, had to answer instead of ignoring it like any normal person would and say herself. This got Mia pissed. She came up to Emily at break and started confronting her on the fact she thought Mia was uglier than her. Of course, the whole situation had been exaggerated because any person with an ounce of respect for themselves (not me) wouldn't have said Mia, but of course, she probably should've. Emily started crying uncontrollably, like full on tears streaming down her face and I was caught in the middle of it. I had to go with Emily to sort this shit out and then she had the audacity to ask if I would be purposely late to my lesson to go with her to staff even though I wasn't allowed to in the first place. She knows I'm a goody two shoes and she knows I'm in the highest class, so rules are pretty strict. If I'm not there within five minutes of the bell, which is a rule for the whole school, I would get put down as truancy and it would go on my record. I had absolutely nothing bad on my record. Nothing. I was not about to risk it for some silly fight. It was already four minutes past and I just about made it in time. I was full on running. And then she full on blindsided me on the bus after. Like, bitch?

Also, I'm not even trying to back myself up here, but she's not the best friend either.

Phoebe, who I said would come back, now talks shit about me behind my back. Yeah, me. The person who did absolutely fuck all to get into this mess. And I'm not lying when I say behind my back. She was full on whispering with her friend about me in the dinner queue when I was right in front of her. She probably did it on purpose to piss me off but I wasn't about to have that. She even confronted me in form, yeah, we're in the same form. I am in the worst position ever. She asked me if I was talking smack. Obviously, I said no. Because I wasn't. Because not everything revolves around you, you fat fuck. But anyways, she just rolled her eyes and did that classic sound that popular girls make with their teeth when you say something they don't like. Are you actually fucking kidding me? Now I have to worry about this.

Now, we're at the part about the stuff me and Emily talk about on the bus. The 'school' stuff. Except it's not school stuff, it's all about her fucking crush. This one dude that's in our year that I absolutely cannot fucking stand. Every single conversation we have has to start with, 'Oh my god, what did he do?' Because yes, he's in my classes. Fuck me. He didn't do shit. What the fuck do you mean 'what did he do?' He did nothing. He sat there, got sent out 4 minutes into class and I didn't see him again for the rest of the day. I honestly find it pretty inconsiderate because he's really rude to me specifically and her bringing him up all the time like he's some sort of angel just pisses me off. Oh, how about me? Something she's never asked since I've met her. It's always me asking her. Oh, yeah my day was great. That's a lie, I have to deal with you pointing him out every time you see him and asking me whether you should go talk to him at lunch and then never actually doing it. Do I look like I care? Because I'm pretty sure I couldn't give a fuck. Honestly, it's getting tiring now. Every time I have something to say, she interrupts me with something about him. A tiny, little, unimportant thing that I could live 100 years without needing to hear. It's just embarrassing.

More things we do on the bus. I know, more. She gets me to 'stalk' her ex-best friend's instagram account because her lazy ass can't be bothered getting her own two fucking phones out. I don't want to do it because it's fucking annoying. I'm tryna play Block Blast bro, but anyway, she keeps asking me until I just get annoyed and eventually do it. I don't even know why she keeps asking because her account is private and you can only see her username. Speaking of unsernames, she stole my fucking username. Yeah, canklodafor. On TikTok, I have a few accounts but that's my main user for absolutely everything and she created a new account with the same user but an extra letter. The thing is, I've already been viewing her ex-friend's account with this username so she has my fucking account. Emily, on this extra account with my username, she messaged this girl and she instantly knew it was Emily. Now, this girl has reported me on everything. One of my accounts even got banned. For absolutely nothing. Like, are you actually fucking kidding me right now. It's one thing stealing my username, because that's just rude. That username is my whole thing. I use it for everything. But me getting banned as well is just a-whole-nother level of annoying.

I went to hang out with my other friend, Sophia, a few days ago and we went to get food without her because she takes about 10 minutes to walk out of class because her stubby, little fucking legs can't take her anywhere in less than a fucking week. We got out and she was sat on a bench talking to the girl she always talks shit about, because obviously she has no friends. Except me. And I could hear my name and the most plain, unimaginative insult I'd ever heard. Oh wow, she was talking shit about me. Are you fucking serious? After all the things I've put up with. And then she had the audacity to come up to me acting like the perfect friend and then when Sophia left because Emily was getting pretty annoying, she sighed looked at me and went, 'Guys,' Uhm, guys? It's literally just me here but ok, whatever. 'I think Sophia hates me.' Shut up. It's not that deep. She went to go practice music because she can't at home right now. Stop being a pick me and look at where she's going. It's right there and I literally need glasses to see.

She treats me like a therapist and keeps talking about how her life is so hard and she might just leave again because of bullying. Are you kidding? Yesterday, you literally just said you don't want to leave because I'm here and also your GCSE's are coming up and it's such a big moment for you! You got 4 on your last math test. It was out of 55. And you're still trying to convince me you're the smartest one here.

She talks to me about her sister going through a rough patch and how it's so stressful for her. Are you the one experiencing it? Think about how your sister feels. Because you don't seem to care about her perspective in all of this. And then she ignores me when I try to bring up something traumatic that happened to me when I was younger. (If you search my user on TikTok, you can probably find out but it doesn't really affect the story.) I really couldn't care that it happened and I don't have much of an opinion on it but I feel like she shouldn't just move past it in conversation like it's nothing. If she's uncomfortable, she knows she can tell me and even if it doesn't cause me sadness, I still want to hear at least some condolence about it. If she wants to make a joke instead of comforting me, I'm even fine with that because humor is always my way of coping (way different to her so I get why I may feel some coldness towards her extreme displays of emotion) but she could at least acknowledge the fact that it happened.

As well as all this, she lies about the littlest things ever. Except this first thing isn't really that little. She lied to our school pastoral team about 'being a young carer.' She's not. She has no one in her family even being cared for right now. Her mum and dad are both financially and emotionally stable, she has an older sister who's away at college and a brother who doesn't live in their house anymore. She was telling me at lunch about how she got 'nominated.' No, you didn't. I asked her why and she said "Oh, maybe because my dad.. uhm- he gets angry sometimes?" Ok? So does my dad but that doesn't class me as a young carer. It also doesn't class you as a young carer. Do you even know the meaning? I've met both your parents and neither of them need caring for or help around the house. Even about the smallest things too. I'd literally bring up something I did at the weekend and she'd say 'Oh my god, me too!' No you didn't. I saw your location. You were at McDonald's twice in the space of 5 hours. Some girl on the bus brought in her favourite perfume and Emily said 'Oh my god, I have that at home.' No you don't. You literally said you have six perfumes and sent me pictures of all of them. None of them were even by the same brand. And another time, some girl said she was really hoping for Gorillaz discs for her birthday and Emily said 'I have about three of those.' No you literally don't? Again, why are you lying about the stupidest shit? Your favourite artist is literally Billie Eilish and liking her is your entire personality. Actually quit yapping. She asks me if I like Billie Eilish and I say no because I've never heard her songs and she rolls her eyes at me. She literally made her entire TikTok account Billie themed and made a fan account with stupid edits I thought I stopped seeing in 2019. This would be fine except she manages to work her into every conversation and said a girl was copying her for saying she liked Billie. She even borrowed a Billie Eilish book from the school library once because she saw it on the website. You've never been to that place once and you don't even read. You gotta be joking. If I'm being honest, it's embarrassing. She brags about going to to see her perform in July when no one around her even cares. Especially me. I'm not even a fan of Billie. I've never been and I've never had an opinion on her but now whenever I see her, I get annoyed because I associate her with Emily. I'm sick of it.

She constantly uses 'looking Chinese' as an insult and I'm pretty sure she's being racist. Pretty sure meaning she calls Chinese (and Asian people) the 'c slur' because she finds it funny. Me and Sophia have told her countless times to stop using that line but it's getting out of hand and she uses it way too much for us to let it slide. I'm not even sure she's thinking it through because her crush, yes the guy she brings up constantly, is literally asian. It's ridiculous.

I'm sorry I'm saying so many bad things about her but all the little things are adding up and I can't help but start to hate her. I don't want to and I think I'm being unreasonable but she's getting on my nerves and I can't help but say it. Am I the asshole?


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