My boundaries-Read before friend requesting

Hi everyone! I wanted to come on here and make a blog of my boundaries since a few people on this site cant behave themselves, .  


-Talking about relationships=I am comfortable with this

-Talking about s3x=I am not comfortable with this. Talking about these topics outside of getting support, age appropriate, educational settings, and relationships is a huge no-go for me IRL and online.

-Sharing personal information= I am not comfortable with this, and will NOT be sharing personal info.

-Discussing social issues: This also varies, If its something I am aware of and am comfortable talking about, I am all up for having a conversation about it and maybe debating it (I only debate people when both of us are compelled to talk about it by education and understanding). If I am not educated on the situation, I prefer not to talk about it, and will not talk about it until I understand it and have formed a well thought out opinion.

Discussing religion: I am not comfortable with people pushing their religion onto me, I am an atheist who leans a little towards paganism and spirituality, and consider people forcing religion onto others as extremely rude and disrespectful. However casual, respectful chat about beliefs is okay.

Venting: I am comfortable with you venting to me if you need to, in fact I encourage everyone to be open about how they are feeling.

Age stuff: I am fine accepting friend requests from non-minors, however I will not accept any friend requests from anyone older than 25, and I also accept friend requests from  people (reasonably) younger than me. If you message me and you are a non-minor, you MUST respect my boundaries, and acknowledge the fact that there is a difference in maturity, and that there is a power dynamic, just as I do for people younger than myself. It's just common sense that if it would be inappropriate in real life, it's inappropriate online, and hiding behind a screen doesn't make it ok.

Posting pics: If I post a picture and have something censored (Like one of my friends faces, lanyards, a sign, etc.) do not ask me to send it to you uncensored. I won't do it, if its censored, its censored for a reason.

Using other accounts to reach out to me after I've blocked you: Unfortunately this has happened before, and I will not tolerate it. If I block you, it's for a reason, if you use a different account to message me, it will be getting blocked and reported. Its inappropriate, stalkerish, weird, and completely unacceptable.

If I block you: Leading on from the last topic: If I block you, its for a reason, you have made me feel VERY uncomfortable and you will not be unblocked.

I don't think there's much more to add to this, if there is then I'll put it in, but this is it for now. If you can't respect these boundaries, please don't add me.

P.S Sorry if you can sense any frustration in this blog, but I shouldn't have to say a lot of these things.

XoXo Carla


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This looks so cool LOL! Nice boundaries btw ig :33


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