BYF

Just some heads-up before you interact with me !!

I respond to messages late , or take a long time to respond

This is due because, well , I live in Australia , so I may respond VERY late, but also I am a very awkward person and I do not know how to initate conversation, I do apologise for this in advance.

I am neurodivergent

I have diagnosed AuDHD , GAD , which makes me a very anxious and awkward person. Plus, I have traits that are assigned with BPD, however I do not have said disorder. I do apologise in advance if I act in a manner that makes you uncomfortable, and PLEASE tell me if I do and I will immediately try and change the way I act next time.

Paranoid Episodes + Intrusive Thoughts

On the occasion I do get really paranoid for a long period of time (can be quick like hours, but usually its days and sometimes weeks), and that will cause me to not be online whatsoever on this account. Also I tend to get very violent thoughts (I mean, I always do but I am talking about ones that will make me very anxious), so when I am going through an episode of violent thoughts, I tend to not be as online as much. If you notice I am very aggressive with my messages, please let me know as that's usually a warning sign of a weird intrusive thoughts episode and I need to be alone during that time.

Swearing

It's pretty obvious that I swear a lot, I mean, I'm Australian, who doesn't swear down under? But I do swear, like a lot, but I am trying to say stuff like: "What the flip" or "What the fart" instead in case it offends anyone. I do also say the f-slur and t-slur, but I can actually claim those words, but I do not say them on this site, so there's no biggie for it to randomly come out of nowhere.

I AM A MINOR

I don't even need to explain, don't get genuinely freaky with me y'all, I'm not into that junk. (Emphasis on GENUINELY freaky).

Tonetags

I am horrible with reading people's tones online and IRL, so tonetags are a life-saver for me. Please use them if you think I may interpret something wrong.

I do remove friends on the occasion

If I find you not very interesting or you don't communicate with me much, I MIGHT, unfriend you, it's nothing personal whatsoever, it's just how I function to make everything neater for me. I find everyone who I friend awesome, so don't worry if you think if you did something wrong, I just may not find you interesting to talk to, but you are a cool person!!

And that's about it, if you are uncomfortable with any of these stuff about me, just don't interact.