mental health matters until they have poor mental health

mental health matters until this! mental health matters until that.. overall mental matters until they have poor mental health. people love to say how much they care about others mental health and how they want everyone to be happy, but in reality they dont care. once someone is going through a hard time and genuinely tries their best (given their mental state) to get better, but can’t they give up. it’s a nice thought to want that person to be happy, but it’s important that they recognize that happiness might take a LONG time to be achieved. it make me so genuinely sad and angry this happens to me and so many other people. i understand if that person might be having a hard time, but also disrespecting others, that’s understandle. you try and try and try and instead they treat you like shit, that is resaonable. however when someone is simply going through some and just is rarely happy, but still respectful that’s when it’s fucked up. they aren’t doing anything wrong, they aren’t hurting someone, they are simply going through something. so i don’t understand why there is a repetitive pattern of leaving someone who has a struggle. no one is perfect, no one can solve bigger complex issues quickly, no one can do things themselves. so please this applies to anyone if you’ve been through something you should know, however those people do it all the time leave as soon as they realize that person can’t get better quickly. it doesn’t matter who you are it doesn’t excuse the behavior you may not understand which is completely fine you don’t need to, but you can still show empathy.