More people are aimed at appearing nonchalant and i absolutely hate i

I don't know why, but it seems like more and more people are trying to appear 'cool' by not caring about anything, despite knowing that being cool isn't a binary box that one has to act a certain way to fill.. Being passionate and 'cringe' is cooler than feigning stoicism. I always see Autistic/ADHD people get degraded by others for 'caring too much' or being 'cringe', and I never understood it. WE define what cringe is, so why are we calling things that have no harm, such as liking a certain fashion style or TV show embarrassing??? 

The culture of having to perform 24/7 just to conform needs to be eradicated, making oneself digestible at the downside of their own happiness just isn't right, at some point, the pressure and expectation to fit into a certain 'genre' of person can be crushing. Instead of trying to fit into a certain stereotype to seem smart or cool or tough or someting why cant we all just STOP PERFORMING !!!! STOP BEING NONCHALANT!!! BE CHALANT!!!!! START CARING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

anyways ..... I like caring i love being emotional and annoying and chalant !!!!!!!!!!