Dating culture

So i have been thinking abt dating culture becuz as prob many youtubers have pointed out dating is much harder now.

Now heres my take of this:

Even tho we have a lot more accesibility to dating, its been hard anyway prob more because theres like less good dating options both in female and male. Like many of us prob are terrible as a dating option, so atp prob more ppl are gonna like be 50 in the future and still single asf. Because even if ur brain develops to age 25 wheres its suppossed to be fully developed, i see ppl still be immature asf at their 40's and shii. So in my opinion we both are prob the problem, that isnt bad tho. And for some reason so many good men are kinda taken now. Also for some reason the guys in my school turn all sweet towards female instantly when they have a gf, even if she doesnt go to school, a whole ass 360 😭 like damn how.

Another attributing fact i may say is the standards we have now. We tend to have like a romanticized idea of our ideal type prob becuz of books and movies, whats valid (i wish they were real too) but yea that tends to make us prob see less ppl as a dating option. Also ppl saying online dating never works out is bullshit, yes it may be hard but it can work 💀 that makes even the dating pool tinier due to ppl saying online dating is invalid, like its none of ur business like just keep it to yourself lol

Anyway so whats the solution to our decline of dating?

Theres tbh none, all u can do is work on yourself and do a lot of self-reflection and put urself out there (like join a lot of clubs and events) like once a month or week. And introverts you can do this too just do it once a month or such, i bet u can handle atleast 2 hours of socialization. Or just sit next to another introvert during an event in a corner, works too. You dont have to go to places with many ppl anyway, even like a small art club works too. You can make friends, and maybe they recommend you someone to date because most ppl are extroverts so they generally have more contacts and prob gonna set you up to a blind or double date.

Anyway do wtf u want, if u dont want a relationship thats fine, leaves more to the ppl who want one. If you want a relationship tho and also barely have any friends just go out there and let yourself be seen, and if people dislike you, ignore it (unless like you start getting legal trouble) and be yourself, you rather want someone who you can be yourself with than someone who fell for a fake you, making u trapped pretending to be someone else, dont be fully yourself tho like stabbing and kicking ppl because they made you mad, you also dont want legal trouble, and be generally nice to everyone so they more likely to approach you.

Anyway shall yall find love because the dating pool is with less and less people. And be patient it usually takes years to find your ideal perfect person, just enjoy the journey and let it happen naturally.

Xoxo Kimi