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Hello, welcome to another blog about my miserable little life! A desperate event happened to me last year and I recently found out in the worst possible way, yay!
To put it in context, there is a boy in my class who is EXTREMELY strange and when I say EXTREMELY I am not exaggerating, let's list the incredible "qualities" he has. First of all, he is isolated from everyone, (so much so that I felt sorry for him because no one wanted to be around him, but now I understand why) he dresses in the same clothes EVERY DAY, he stares at the girls at my school with a crazy look, (that look that gives you goosebumps) He smells really bad, it's a smell that alone could make me unable to breathe and last but not least, he chases girls.
Well, I had already found out through a friend that he had stalked her friend, so I was very angry and went to talk to her when it was time to leave, because until then we had been taking the same route. So I told her that if he continued he would see me, and strangely, he stopped. I didn't question it and simply ignored the fact that he was in the same class as me. Until the same thing happened to me.
At first I thought he had only followed me once, (I was wrong) so I didn't give it much importance, but this year my mother told me that besides him looking at her strangely, He already followed me while I was with my family, just so you can see the level of this boy's mentality, many of my friends don't even know my mother, how can he if we never exchanged a word? I froze, and started crying in my room, thinking: I was being followed, and I didn't realize it, since last year, I had all the signs and I didn't realize it. I felt like crap.
And with my mother's instruction, she told me to be quiet and careful, she told me not to say anything good or bad about him. Did I do that? No. I just freaked out when I went to the computer room and he sat next to me. I saw red, but I held back all the pent up anger. I discreetly went to the teacher and called him to talk outside, and I told him what was happening, I didn't need to give any characteristics of him, he simply already knew who he was. So he took me to the principal's office to tell him what was happening, I told the coordinator everything, that the boy needed psychiatric monitoring, but no one listened to me, and then I went back to the computer room with tears in my eyes and sat somewhere else away from him.
If you think it was bad, don't worry, it can get worse! They called the boy in to talk as promised, but they didn't warn me that I would come face to face with the potentially psychopathic boy. I sat down in front of him, with my head down and regretting my reckless choice, there was nothing else to do, he knows it was me. I found out that the school police were looking for him (he must have done something besides chasing girls) and like it or not, he was there for the same reason.
I'm hoping he's just a weirdo who leers at girls because if he's crazy and decides to do something, I'm the first victim. I believe that if he is not treated, he could become a dangerous person, if he is not already.
I don't know what to do about it, I'm just being extra careful on the street and constantly looking back, afraid of being followed. I wanted to know what this boy's problem was. All the teachers I told already thought it was him, even though I didn't mention any of his characteristics. He's very strange.
Oh, I forgot to put in the text: The girl he was previously stalking asked him to stop, but he didn't stop and sent her a letter declaring himself and an envelope with money. She returned it and said she didn't want anything to do with him, and he finally stopped. Another thing, when the vice principal in front of me said that the school police were after him, he simply kept his face neutral, without saying anything, denying that he had followed me. He only answered what he wanted and only apologized to me because he was told to apologize.
Updates! He's going to change classes and they're going to talk to his parents, and they're also going to start medical monitoring because his academic record isn't good.
The other day I was looking at myself in my mini mirror and putting on some lip gloss and through the reflection in the mirror I saw him looking at me with a look that gives me chills. I want to change schools fast.
They haven't taken him out of my classroom yet. The school really doesn't care, that's why so many tragedies happen at school, because the school isn't concerned about the well-being of the students. If something happens, it's their fault due to negligence.
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Olá, bem-vindos a mais um blog sobre a minha vidinha miserável! Um acontecimento desesperador aconteceu comigo ano passado e recentemente descobri da pior maneira possível, oba!
Para contextualizar, tem um garoto na minha turma que é extremamente estranho, e quando digo extremamente não estou exagerando, vamos listar as incríveis "qualidades" que ele tem. Primeiro, ele é isolado de todos (tanto que eu sentia pena dele porque ninguém queria ficar perto dele, mas agora entendo o porquê), ele se veste com a mesma roupa todos os dias, encara as meninas da minha escola com um olhar louco (aquele olhar que dá arrepios), ele cheira muito mal, é um cheiro que por si só poderia me deixar sem fôlego e, por último, mas não menos importante, ele persegue as meninas.
Bem, eu já tinha descoberto por meio de uma amiga que ele estava perseguindo a amiga dela, então fiquei muito brava e fui falar com ela na hora de ir embora, porque até então estávamos fazendo o mesmo caminho. Então eu disse a ela que se ele continuasse, ele iria se ver comigo, e estranhamente, ele parou. Eu não questionei e simplesmente ignorei o fato de que ele estava na mesma classe que eu. Até que a mesma coisa aconteceu comigo.
No começo, pensei que ele só tinha me seguido uma vez (eu estava errada), então não dei muita importância, mas este ano minha mãe me disse que, além de ele olhar para ela de forma estranha, ele já me seguiu enquanto eu estava com minha família. Só para vocês verem o nível de mentalidade desse garoto, muitos dos meus amigos nem conhecem minha mãe, como ele pode se nunca trocamos uma palavra? Eu congelei e comecei a chorar no meu quarto, pensando: Eu estava sendo seguida, e eu não percebi, desde o ano passado, eu tinha todos os sinais e não percebi. Eu me senti um lixo.
E com as instruções da minha mãe, ela me disse para ficar quieta e cuidadosa, ela me disse para não dizer nada de bom ou ruim sobre ele. Eu fiz isso? Não. Eu simplesmente surtei quando fui para a sala de informática e ele sentou ao meu lado. Eu vi vermelho, mas contive toda a raiva reprimida. Discretamente, fui até o professor e o chamei para conversar lá fora, e contei a ele o que estava acontecendo. Não precisei dar nenhuma característica dele, ele simplesmente já sabia quem era. Então, ele me levou à sala da diretoria para contar o que estava acontecendo. Contei tudo ao coordenador, que o menino precisava de acompanhamento psiquiátrico, mas ninguém me ouviu, e então voltei para a sala de informática com lágrimas nos olhos e me sentei em outro lugar, longe dele.
Se você acha que foi ruim, não se preocupe, pode piorar! Chamaram o menino para conversar, como prometido, mas não me avisaram que eu daria de cara com o garoto potencialmente psicopata. Sentei-me na frente dele, de cabeça baixa e arrependida da minha escolha imprudente. Não havia mais nada a fazer, ele sabia que era eu. Descobri que a polícia da escola estava procurando por ele (ele devia ter feito algo além de perseguir garotas) e, goste ou não, ele estava lá pelo mesmo motivo.
Espero que ele seja apenas um esquisitão que fica olhando para as garotas, porque se ele for louco e decidir fazer alguma coisa, eu sou a primeira vítima. Acredito que, se ele não for tratado, pode se tornar uma pessoa perigosa, se é que já não é.
Não sei o que fazer a respeito, estou apenas sendo extremamente cuidadosa na rua e constantemente olhando para trás, com medo de ser seguida. Eu queria saber qual é o problema desse garoto. Todos os professores para quem contei já achavam que era ele, mesmo eu não tendo mencionado nenhuma de suas características. Ele é muito estranho.
Ah, esqueci de colocar no texto: A garota que ele estava perseguindo pediu para ele parar, mas ele não parou e enviou a ela uma carta se declarando e um envelope com dinheiro. Ela devolveu e disse que não queria mais nada com ele, e ele finalmente parou. Outra coisa: quando a vice-diretora estava na minha frente disse que a polícia da escola estava atrás dele, ele simplesmente manteve o rosto neutro, sem dizer nada, negando que tivesse me seguido. Ele só respondeu o que queria e só se desculpou comigo porque lhe disseram para se desculpar.
Atualizações! Ele vai mudar de turma e eles vão conversar com os pais dele, e também vão começar o acompanhamento médico porque o histórico escolar dele não é bom.
Outro dia, eu estava me olhando no meu mini espelho e passando gloss labial quando, através do reflexo, vi que ele me olhava com um olhar que me dá arrepios. Quero mudar de escola logo.
Ainda não o tiraram da minha sala de aula. A escola realmente não se importa, é por isso que tantas tragédias acontecem na escola, porque a escola não se preocupa com o bem-estar dos alunos.
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kromantiya
Meu deus! Eu sinto muito que essa bizarrice tenha acontecido contigo
E pensar que tem uma galera por aí (principalmente na internet, claro) que fala como queria ter um stalker, essas pessoas não tem ideia do quão assustador isso é e nem ao que isso pode levar
Pois é, para vc ver, sou um ímã de garotos estranhos.
E realmente, é tão ridículo ver pessoas dizendo coisas assim qnd vc já passou por isso e sabe q n é algo para ser romantizado. Tenho traumas que não acabam mais de homens e não consigo confiar em nenhum, não é nem questão de misandria, e sim pq eu realmente tenho um medo insano de passar as mesmas coisas pelas quais minhas mãe passou, então por conta desses acontecimentos eu fui colecionando mais e mais traumas. Inclusive nem tiraram ele da minha sala, a escola realmente n se importa.
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Felix
Why does everyone know only one person like this? like why are they all so spread out? theres always ONE isolated, weird, creepy kid in every class. its so weird to me idk
It's because everywhere there is someone who is socially unacceptable, with mental problems, etc, we never know what this stranger's life was like. But this ceases to be a justification when that person is potentially dangerous to other people. This is so real that I found out through an ex-friend of theirs that they form cliques on discord and do a lot of shit there. So, this already shows that this type of boy has to be treated properly by psychologists or psychiatrists. (Thank goodness I don't have Discord anymore, problematic network.)
by Meulizza; ; Report
Are they really on discord???
by Felix; ; Report
do you know his discord?
by Felix; ; Report
Yes, generally shitty people go to Discord precisely to find "broken" people like them and feel seen, accepted, I've noticed that. Which is really bad, because the person needs to hear that their behavior is wrong, and with people saying that it's not normal, the person will seek treatment, Now, if he joins a group of kids like him, it becomes increasingly difficult for him to receive help because there is that resistance of the type: "You don't accept me because I'm different."
And this is already happening, because in the principal's office he showed disinterest and indifference, as if we were the ones who were wrong. These guys need real socialization, because at least with real people they would have an improvement, but they spend the whole day locked up, the room almost becoming a rat breeding ground and staying up all night on the computer doing God knows what.
by Meulizza; ; Report
And to answer your question, no, I don't know his Discord.
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Andrea!
Oh my gosh I'm so sorry that you had to go through this and the fact that you had to be in the same room with him after reporting him and all that?? Nuh uhh that guys a creep and you don't deserve that! They should have listened to you as soon as you said something (╯︵╰、)
Well, they only care when something serious happens. They never pay attention to the signs, they only start running after someone when it's too late, when they could have saved someone. It's really difficult having to depend on the authorities and the school. But I have faith in God that all of this will work out.
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theboredgirl444
In the beginning I thought that he was in love with you or something like that but when you said that he wear the same clothes every day, and that he smells bad I was like "Ah no way" anyways, I hope everything will be okay soon and that he's gonna be helped cause he's not mentally stable.
I also hope everything goes well and he gets the proper mental health treatment. That way everyone is safe, right?
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RarityRan
Omg !
Thank you for doing such a great job so he can't keep doing the same to other girls , don't worry nothing will happen to you , just tell your parents about everything .
I really hope it helps other girls! Thanks for the comment! <3
by Meulizza; ; Report
L0E
Algo semelhante aconteceu com uma amiga minha, é bizarro mano. Existe um limite quando vc vai stalkear algm de qualquer forma, seguir a pessoa na vida real e ainda nao parar mesmo quando dizem pra vc parar ja é demais. Fico me perguntando oq se passa na cabeça desse tipo de pessoa.
Sinto muito pela sua amiga! Eu acho que perseguir alguém é bem doentio, ainda mais nesse nível. O que nós vemos é "stalkear" pessoas nas redes sociais. Mas isso realmente me deixou bem insegura.
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ｄｅａｔｈˡᵉᵗᵗᵉʳᶻ ☆
[another comment so it wont look ugly] glad that they are FINALLY doing something to help him and i hope that it ends on a good note without weird bs and him becoming at least a bit more normal/sane
I hope so too, I don't want him to be chasing other girls, it's desperate. I'm paranoid about it.
by Meulizza; ; Report
ｄｅａｔｈˡᵉᵗᵗᵉʳᶻ ☆
'im hoping hes just a weirdo; school police is after him' [insert mr krabs and squidward "how do we tell him?" image] 🕊️ thought he was just socially awkward until i read the weird stare part
did he like stare at you when he sat next to you? or was he sitting still like some doll? either way its really creepy and unusual and i cant even imagine what he must have done to have school police on his ass future discord mod fr
I also thought he was just excluded and wanted attention . He kept staring at me and following me, like, I was in a place and he was there too (It was no coincidence)
by Meulizza; ; Report
he could have at least tried to say 'hi' or some basic shit, but yeah hope this whole weird future psychopath thing doesnt turn into anything worse
make sure to post updates im kind of interested how it will end and maybe ill find them on my recent feed again
by ｄｅａｔｈˡᵉᵗᵗᵉʳᶻ ☆; ; Report
I hope so too, I'm scared to death
I will post updates, anyway, I'm going to change schools.
by Meulizza; ; Report
death? say that again.. is it really THAT bad to the point you switch schools? ... okay dumb question sorry idk if i would laugh or cry if he would switch schools too
by ｄｅａｔｈˡᵉᵗᵗᵉʳᶻ ☆; ; Report
No, actually I've been waiting for a place at another school for a while now, because I moved house. But I think it served that purpose too, I wouldn't be able to be around him without wanting to beat him to death.
by Meulizza; ; Report
that letter thing was so weird what the fuck
the more you update it the worse it gets i swear
by ｄｅａｔｈˡᵉᵗᵗᵉʳᶻ ☆; ; Report
I told you he was weird. He must have some kind of serious problem. (This is turning into a very long conversation)
by Meulizza; ; Report
if i had to guess he might be childhood trauma/abuse victim (more like a very long comment reply section)
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