:((? Very sad

What would you do if your friend appeared sadder one day? Would you ask them if their are feeling bad/try to talk to them normally/ maybe try to make them happier or would you just ignore them and go to your other friends to have fun with them? Considering that you are "best friends" with the one that is sad.

Sooo it's quite a long story but i think it started like a month or two ago and it was bc i was sad (i dont remember what i was sad about).

But you have to know that usually in our friendship I'm the one who makes jokes and all that.

And that day i was just too tired to do that.

So it turned out that if im too tired to make jokes and start a conversation she will just not talk to me almost at all.

And she would just ignore me and spend time with her different friends and generally have fun alll that time with them.

And it made me sad even more but i decided that i should probably just pretend im happy and we will talk normally so i did that.

Even though it hurts because i always ask her if she acts unusually or something and i always try to show her that i care.

And she just left me alone even though i felt so bad.

So basically a week later.

One of her friends suddenly says something about the party that the two of them are going to.

And i didnt know about anything, and I probably still wouldn't know anything because she didn't plan to tell me.

She clearly didn't want me there.

And then again i felt sad.

And now AGAIN her friend mentioned about ANOTHER party that they are going to and she again didn't tell me anything.

And basically she and her friend are acting like they are best friends suddenly.

And so i just dont talk to her, because i dont have energy to pretend that everything is alright and im not even sure if i wanna be friends anymore with her. When she leaves me alone every time she notices that im miserable 😗.

The problem is that if i wanted to have a conversation with her i dont know what would i be supposed to say to her. Because why should i ask her to start caring about me and my feelings? If she wanted to, she really would have done that by now. That's why i dont think i will do anything. Especially that im always the one who has to reach out to people. So i think i will just see how things turns out.