What is love

This might be personal idk but it's so hard to find true love now and days. I'm 14 ftm and I've always wanted a BF who loves me for who I am. I don't want something so fast I want to become friends and learn about one another first. I have had my feelings played with 2 times now and it was not a fun experience.


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r41nb0w0

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ik this might be repetitive but finding sum1 to really connect takes a long time (i say this as a ftm too btw).
When i was 14 i got played by a guy who manipulated me through the entire relationship (that lasted like a year or less,,) but i took that as an experience n let myself recover from it first. Teenage love will always be hard, since it's mostly the first time for every1 to be on something serious, but this doesn't excuse the bad ppl you'll find ofc.
What I'm trying to say is, when you least expect it you'll find it. When I was friends w my now gf, she was already on a "long term" relationship. I had a crush on her but never tried to get involved. Until she broke up w her ex (after 2 years or so) and confessed to me.
So keep your head up, you still have time :)


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SamIRL

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Idk any advice here. My friend jus put chemicals in my water that turned me gay, and now we're dating!! /silly


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