am i deluded???

OKAY SO... i finish secondary school soon!! So that means i can finally dye my hair! BUT me and my mum are having some disagreements. Shes fine with dying my hair, but she doesnt like the style i wanna get! can someone pleaseee give an objective opinion on whos style looks better!

The top one is what my mum wants me to get, and the bottom ones the one i want. please give some advice!!