my friends often talk about how they see something theyre displeased with online, either an opinion or general post, and i offer them the solution which is getting off social media but they never listen. they either ignore it or wishfully think that oh maybe one day. the day is now! i have to stop myself from constantly telling them theyll be much happier if they just delete social media or stop scrolling or whatever and their only answers are the two i just mentioned. it makes me so mad when theres a clear answer to something but people refuse to do it. its illogical...
this isnt just this topic either. my friend had injured himself and i told him to put ice on it but he refused and continued to complain about his injury. in another instance a different friend was struggling with a certain matter and i told them exactly what to do to fix it. but no.. she just continued to complain and ended up doing it the hard way (instead of the easy way i told her) that she hatedÂ
i love my friends and i always have their best interest in mind, i wish they would listen to me because what i tell them is helpful! and i want them to be helped. its just so frustrating. i know theyre not required to listen to me but to be honest if they dont then i dont want to listen to them complain! i gave you the solution, if youre not gonna do it then dont cry to me -_-
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aslan
as diogenes the cynic once said, "Why do you ask me how to live if you intend to do the opposite?"
there will always be ppl who just want to vent and dont want advice, but still.. not putting ice even though u advised it? hello!!!!!!!!
no offense to ur friends, but its not the end of the world if they actually try to change.. i have friends like that too and its so frustrating sometimes! i get ppl dont like to change bc its uncomfortable, but cmon.. u could live a better life and ur denying it!!
so yes i def get u 0>0
yeah youre right.. i cant force change and i wouldnt wanna.. glad you understand at least :,p
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