My life update after a break up

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Hii guys!!

I started to like writing my feelings here; it feels refreshing, so I hope you guys are enjoying it as well. Today I wanted to talk about how I was doing with the breakup thing and my finals approaching. I'm doing well right now, feeling normal tbh, things are better, worse, but for now, it's been pretty great. 

Some time ago saw that a girl was giving some advice on how to deal with a break up, and she suggested getting 2 jobs, so you don't have time to think about that person, and as a bonus, you get more money. And obviously, I couldn't do that as a student, but it got me thinking. 

Can you really distract yourself so you get over someone before you know it?

I kinda tested that theory by just watching my comfort shows and studying. My answer is: it depends. If your situation is anything like mine, and you just feel scared to be alone, and feel like you couldn't do it, then yeah, it helped. After a few days, you realise, huh, the world didn't explode after all.

But you can't distract yourself forever if that isn't your case. You unfortunately have to heal, and it takes time and patience. So the only advice I can give is, be gentle with yourself, laugh, make jokes, watch something stupid, and reconnect with people you neglected before. The worst-case scenario is that nothing changes. 

Thanks so much for reading divas, all your positive comments are more than welcome, and if you'd like me to talk about something, let me know!!