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Liiiterally anything at all, I have a car now but still no job 💔 I mostly struggle with talking to strangers and hoping it turns into a real friendship, what are real conversation starters instead of "how are you?" because that can get stale so fast. My town isn't that great tbh, there's a lot of old people (which is fine but I'd rather befriend someone my own age!!) and you have to pay to get into a lot of places around here which is insane. I do love the park but no one really goes there except old people.Â
I also don't know how to deal with meeting someone I don't like based off the things they say, I don't want to ghost people but I don't know how to gracefully say "I don't vibe with you srrrryyyyy" IN PERSON.
I wish dan still did internet support group 😞
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SUKO555
good small talk is a good skill to have because u can transition it into a more interesting
conversation fluently if the vibes are good and still not be committed to talking to that person.
more easy going social and extroverted ppl do the "how are you" not just as curtesy or whatver but because they can go into the flow of taking
about their week/day (if that day was particularly interesting) which usually ends up into talking abt one's interests since, well,
thats what you usually do in a week.
dont be afraid to freely talk about your interests,
theres a whole sorta lie spread around the internet
that people are mean and cruel but in reality people
are on average often nicer and will hear you out when you talk abt something you actually
like if you sound passionate and knowledgeable abt it, even if they dont care for the topic
from there conversations are just like , a skill to develop idk. you just kinda have to talk to more people
to develop said skill and being able to turn strangers into friends yk. theres not really a "correct" or "good" way to
converstate bc everyone and every relationship is different... but yeah just be yourself blah blah blah
as for how to actuall meet more people, im sure uve hear a million times the whole join clubs, sports teams and
whatever stuff but nowadays younger ppl dont rlly do those things. if u have at least one or two friends in ur town u can obviously meet people that way and its easier but if u dont
id say ud better off networking first thru social media nd all that,
make accounts on the larger ones and follow ppl from your area n post stuff to make people engage with u if u dont want to message them first,,,