LDR

In all seriousness, how do ya'll deal with LDR. I mean for me, my first relationship was literally LDR. But that didn't work because she kinda cheated?????? long story. Anyways, I'm currently in a relationship. i met her this senior year, and safe to say we went through a lot of ups and downs already. Now that we've graduated, we're transitioning from always together to LDR (she lives in Makati now, I live in Cavite). Let's just say the transition is pretty rough at first. We were both experiencing issues, and I'm recovering from months long of depressive episodes. All we do is keep reassuring each other that we'll make it work, we're both trying. I believe that, and I meant everything I said/I'm saying to her. But urrrmmmmm.... We barely talk everyday, we barely spend any time together. We talked about it last night and figured it's just our attachment styles clashing (she's avoidant, i'm anxious). What a combo right? I decided to be patient. i love this girl so much, I'm not gonna let this distance be the hindrance of our relationship. But I also want us to develop a relationship even virtually. I want to be able to spend time, be able to still do cutesy stuff, even when we're far away from each other. But the problem is, life for both of us has been severely overwhelming. I don't want to overwhelm her more. Fuck. This situation sure is hard. I just really hope we both find the peace we're looking for and eventually come to terms in everything.