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So I have an old online friend, we’ve been friends for almost 2 years, Lol :p

She cutted me off all of the sudden, and I did reached out to her like “hey talk to me, what's up” but she just ignored me I even asked what I did wrong but she just said that she will distance herself from me like uhm? I was heart broken of course, she really means to me because she is my friend but after that I blocked her because she will always do that, cuts me off then suddenly she will message me like nothing happened, I am tired of her, I mean I knew she is dealing through something and I did tried to stay with her but she will always pushes me away like as if I was nothing to her, I gave her advices, listen to her drama but I will always end up like a trash to her. Before I blocked her I saw her Instagram stories she is playing with her new friends like uhrgh I feel like a rebound, I am so tired of her. Did I do the right thing?


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twinklelore

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You absolutely did what was right for your peace. It hurts deeply when someone you care about treats your presence like it’s optional, especially when you’ve been nothing but loyal, patient, and supportive. It’s clear you showed up with a lot of heart, and that should never be overlooked. Some people, even if they’re struggling, don’t realize the weight of their actions on others, and that’s not your fault. It’s okay to love someone from a distance, especially if staying only causes you pain. You’re not a rebound, and you were never trash, you were a real friend. Let this be a moment where you choose yourself without guilt. Healing starts when you stop begging for the bare minimum. You deserve consistency, not confusion.


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Thank you for letting me know, I appreciate that ^ ^

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vin

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So basically she just talk to you when she's down and when things get better she distance herself...bro
You 100% did the right thing


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Thank you for saying that! :DD

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